PLEASE ADVISE ME

MY son age 16 1/2 yrs not taking intrest in his studies i gave all facillities to him, at this age how can i handle him for his career. please guide me i shelll be very much thanks ful to you.
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It sounds like he is going through a phase known as "finding out who he is." You cannot make decisions about his career choices. He may be feeling pressured by you when all you want is to help. Give him some space and he should come around on his own. Kids just need breathing room. Good luck! comfort
Have you posted this in forums?
For this kind of question, forum is the best place to post.
JMO, hope could help.
He just needs time out...Dad...you should understand that...

Give him time give him space...in another words be there if he need you...until then lay of the pressure...about the bloody facilities...
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my friend he is your son he needs time and space not money and all other facilites
do not provide him any thing only provide him time your time , and your his mother
study with him you and your wife both this is the duty of your's both
give him time and love i hope he will ok wish you best luck
How...it is clear that you don't haw the touch or understanding what is is life at life point...Or at a point at continence at life...grin doh cheers hug hug hug hug hug hug
Eh? I would stick to the little pictures, mate, as they make more sense than your words.
Also I think you must be taking some of the comments a touch too seriously, if you know what I mean.
How...and what would you know about the bloody pic's...grin
because you ha went got a clue about life mate...grin grin

Oh it is a moment when your about to open your sesame so be it...
Lets see what you will share with the world...grin grin grin

You need help...drinking drinking drinking drinking
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Well if I ever decide to seek help, matey, I know not to come to some dumb Aussie who cannot spell. You just stick to the emoticons my friend, its probably all you can manage.
How1,

Show us that you can say something in German,except ordering a beer

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Again?? super
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Mr. How,
I don't know you, but what I can say is just... take it easy!
This is CS! frustrated frustrated very mad very mad
Mimi, here you are popcorn
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Thanks, my dear Yanners,
Follow me, we need to get out off here asap... to avoid s...grin grin
Sorry, Rapowal, for the ungentle post.
That is not for you. Sorry again.
Hope you did collect some things value...
Carob,

Smiri se brate,ostavi to govno da sere

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OK...spasijo si me od majmuna idemo dalje...conversing grin cheers hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
Veceras je nasa Slava-Torcida Bijeli

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Well Mr CT...you are welcome to jump on his band wagon...grin

But its such a short trip man...Is it worth your trip while you a spiting along and looking for a billabong...???grin grin cheers hug hug hug conversing hug conversing hug
Catalysis,
Maybe you should not joke about Jack/John like that! scold
They are nice friends and they have their old standard for their love. Of course there is someone match with them.
Your idea is respected. BUT, you should respect other too. Imagine someone said so to you!!
their old standard = their own standard
Human beings resist change unless there is some Motivation or compulsion. You have failed to find his motivating factor. Fix yourself first and find what motivates him.

You are so obsessed with finding the solution that you have not been able to eplore the root-cause that created this problem.

He will maintain the status quo untill you fix yourself. Positive reinforcement works wonders. So don't try to ground him. Don't expect an overnight change. Rest you should yourself.
that's going out their max remember when you were 16 ? until the man speaks for himself on this i wouldn't say it's him being at fault at some point everyone has to take responsibility for themselves . in a couple years he'll be a adult welcome to the real world pops is 44 made it this far.grin cheers
find for him a pretty girl and quiet serious its known that girls r serious in studies more than boys.
u ll see he `ll fall in his studies for her, then its a period of adolescence just be tough if ur flexible then u ll loose him.
in all cases don`t be afraid even if he threats u to leave he`ll come back.
we ar grown up and we still need the family support and if it was possible to buy it I would buy a family.
be tough.see muslim families as older as the person grows older and even if he gets marry and have kids, he can`t disobey his parents!!!its shame for them to do so(disobey)
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