My experience with Sammers for LOVE on CSToday, I would like to write this blog for someone or maybe just for me as a documentation about my real experience with Scammer for LOVE. As a member of CS, you definitely know that there are many kinds of scammer, and to me, the most terrible is to meet scammer for LOVE.
CS is connecting single, and you are on CS that is mostly meaning that you are single. And people, as human being, all need love and need to be loved, scammer for love is not an exception. For some reasons, they are not able, or not easy, to be closed to the one that they wish to be in love with (they are very ugly/scary look, very old, black as they think that black is normally be racist, for example), they then join Connecting Single with a lot of tricks and traps. Hope to grab someone.
For example, they search on CS to find all profiles which are their targets. And then start to attack using A LOT of fake profiles, purpose is to find out what is the real person on the profiles that they are contacted. What they want is someone at AA level to love. They are at ZZ level, but they created about 20, or more, fake profiles, different levels, personal descriptions, ages, locations, education, family status, gender, etc... attack you just want to talk to know who you really are, what are your advantages and disadvantages. After know you, if you are the one that they are interested, they will set up a drama, for example, if you have a soft heart, and you normally feel sorry for people whom less luckily than you, but your lover seems someone at your level or up… their traps will be… they will have a profile with kind of people that they think you may fall in love with, attack you, telling lie ALL of life stuffs (normally illogical, some “reasonable”). When they see you “fall in love”, they, at that profile, will turn to a very bad person. Hurt your heart. Then, by the time you feel sad. They will attack you, using their real profile and begs for your love!
Delete and disregard are the best choice. And be aware that you may get hurt if you used to believe in them from information on profile and from whatever they said via emails exchanging.
Lessons for me:
- Since, there are many scammers, or just some of them but many fake profiles, CS becomes an interesting place for funs, not for love.
- Sometimes, value exchanging ideas and point of view around some stuffs, honestly, I used to feel in love (or at least want to be in love) with someone for the ways he express his ideas and his sense of humor somewhere around!! Don’t get me wrong, I know that is just illusion love and he is forever in my heart as a good friend, ah, no, maybe not forever, just a good friend UNTIL one day in future IF I see there is any bs from him that I could not respect him anymore. lol :-)
- I don’t believe in distance relationship, I don’t say that I don’t believe in anyone or any profile information, BUT, I will just take its as serious ONLY IF someone can prove its for me, and I don’t believe that I could “fall in love” with someone before I met in real, face to face. I respect/admire them for whatever I know/read about them/from them, yes, maybe, but, since couple weeks ago, I've already known that, “fall in love”… NO… DEFINITELY… NO! (I mean, a BIG NO).
Saturday, 09 October 2010
P.S. I posted this on N&E blog as advices discussion day ago, but I would take it here to my blog, just as a record for myself.