y the western women do not respect their husbands?

I think its more a matter of love rather than east and west actually ... I mean ... If there is love, then respect follows inherently. The opposite is also true ...


Then again, I wouldn't want my wife to have to endeavour to respect me... so ... better not respect me and break-up if she doesn't still love me. Of course a certain level of scrifice, maturity and effort are still necessary even if there is sincere love.

believe me before marriage is sthn and after marriage is sthn else, though love is still standing but maybe as u said,sacrifice and maturity ,this time I ll put age on its right place.

and yes brother ... I agree ... LOVE is EXTREMLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY difficult if not impossible to find ... I don't mean the love of words, flowers etc etc ... but that sort of true love that can't be explain in words sort of .. I donno ... personally I kinda gave up on ever gettin married ...

What you give out you'll get back
I feel Mr. How summed this blog perfectly up

really you know american women and there husbands. how many american women have you been married to?
We adore our husbands. and american men do not fell threaten by us, so they are more opened to hear we have to say. they are not afraid to let wifes speak.They welcome it. most of the time men have the last say except when it comes to the care of the chilern.because our husband are sweet to us we are sweet back. so american husbands are happy . do some couples fight. well yes. also remeber america is made up of many different people from around the world.american men are warm sweet men, but do not make the mistake in thinking they are push overs. They are not.
they are sweet but strong
kind but firm
understanding but smart
never think the american men are weak because they love there women enough to listen and take the advice of there women, who are also smart.

Neither one should control the other.... it's a two way thing and decisions should be made together, not by one party only!!! This is not the dark ages!

True love means no one "wears the pants", but seeks the wellbeing and happiness of the other, without disrespecting themselves or their values. Decisions are jointly made, with no seeking of control. Win-win is the driving idea behind any decisions.
If a person truly loves and values another, they are willing to compromise on things that don't violate their basic values, and would never seek to try to make their partner violate their values just to please them.
Men and women, though different, and capable of different physical tasks, are equal, being human, after all.
Respect is a two-way street. Respect is earned, (or not), by the integrity and character of the one being respected (or not).
If despite being a person of integrity or good character, you are not respected (by that, I don't mean feared, or accepted as "the boss") by your partner, you are with the WRONG person - move on.

Could it be that their husbands are not respectful....duhhh

what u say is true!having the luxury of multiple choices sometimes results in loss of respect for all the possibilities....

Ok u dont want guys tellya its not true... u dont want we tell ya isn't true either...then u stated ur oppinion and uwant we all say "yes dude, ur right"-.




Ur not.

As someone said on a previous post , its all about love I guess...not nationality...we could easily say that in Eastern countries women has no right and bla bla bla bla... but seems unfairl again for those who DO respect women... Its all about perspective... and its quite complex!

good luck

Western culture has different beliefs from your culture. So what you see as being disrespectful, might not be to us westerners. In my beliefs, a man ordering me to do something and expecting me to blindly obey is disrespectful. It is all a matter of perspective and what you were raised to believe.

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