Would you leave a woman for her sake?

Because you are an honestman? ;-)

these are different things, I recon, - when you think the partner is not the right one for you or when you think you are not the right one for your partner...

Undine...welcome !

When we find ourselves a good fight...at least we try to stick to some...reckless will, by fighting. Thinking that we might get the best from it. In the end...communication gives you all the answers you need. If...you know how to read between the lines, mostly.

Cheers !

Well Undine...:D Reza...just showed some signs of life lately. Seems we got scared for nothing

A toast for...between

Perfect!
but I dont really need Reza in my blog to draw attention from my issue :-). Lets continue about reading between the lines.. Did you mean that my situation is just an example of the rule "he isnt just that into you"?

Well Undine...to be INTO someone is a condition that many of us don't have the chance to experience. Into, for me, it's a part of some kind of strange mathematics that allow me, stubbornly think 1+1=1. So...in this context..he..whoever he might be...isn't into you ! If he were...you didn't get the chance to write this blog !

Beware of between !

You need a hug?...

thanks jack, give me a hug.

Difficult to reply your question unless there is individual case. Reasons:
1st, “You THINK you are not able to meet her/his expectations” doesn’t mean that you ARE not able to.
2nd, the thing which you think for “her sake” doesn’t mean that it IS her sake.
If the communication is interesting and he/she does not make much pressure on me, I prefer to “stay” at friendship to see what is going on and what will be going on. JMOO.

Been there ... done that .... and definately would do it again if necessary ....

no

Undine I have lived a self centered existence for a lot of years.
Today I live by the next right thing and if that means letting go for the good of another or my self then that is the next right thing. The reward has been having piece of mind and the ability to like me for who I am. That is something money cant buy.
I not that long ago gave up a home that was paid for and everything in it because and the woman I love because it was the next right thing. It hurt like hell but such is the code I live by simple but not easy. I have no ill will for the person only good wishes for her future and I am sure I did the next right thing.
Daniel

LOL JackWeb!
you are so supportive!

good said..
you really can enjoy the life :-)