At least Bar women are real.
I'm pretty much at the point where I take 'internet' dating as a complete joke. I've been on numerous sites off and on for about 2 yrs. Some free, some paid. And it seems like it's the same old tired story. Though the faces change, though sometimes I see familiar faces on each site i try, woman 'say' they want this, this and this but I all honesty i think their lying their asses off!!! allow me to elaborate. During my time on here i've searched through local people, gone statewide even global. I see lots of attractive woman and some people that just sound cool to email. So i do. Now keep in mind these emails are nice, casual hello's. There's no 'hey baby' or booty call references or flirtation at all. And... GASP, i actually READ their profile and comment on something in it on my message. YET, most are read, ignored or deleted without even a profile click. Now, Common freakin sense says that if i get an email I'm gonna look at their profile. Even if I'm not interested, it's 'at least in my mind' COMMON-FREAKIN courtesy to send back a message of either 'hi, not thank you' or something to that effect. I know there's a lot of freaks out there but to not even bother reading an email someone took the time to send is just RUDE!!!! Woman say their looking for nice guy that treats them right with no drama. Well, when one just happens to come along, apparantly they turn a blind eye to them. I know for a fact i could've saved at least one girl from a bad relationship if she'd gave me a shot. I'm on this site in genuine search for someone, the real thing if you will. I do talk to some people on here and genuinely enjoy it. I think some profiles need to change their headline to 'won't respond so don't bother.' I'm not the boastfull type but i do know that whoever snags me whether online or not will have a guy that a lot of other women wished they had.
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Fair shout to u mate
I was on the biggest site there is for two months.Nothing happened.In fact,one woman from my town here was saying she needs a man that makes at least $150,000.00 a year.From the picture she posted,get real.I thought this was the most narcissim I've ever ran into.The nerve I thought.
About the bars....it's true,I have walked away lucky way more than one time but now I quit drinking and can't bring myself to this venue too much.But you are right...at least it's real.Even if it lasts a very short time.I have met a few that are nice to talk to for awhile but disappear for one reason or another and you just can't figure it out.I've been around for 50 years now and still can't figure them out.Don't try.It does'nt hurt to have a hope alive but I would say live your life as full as you can till you find her.Go fishing,go hunting,play golf,softball,play guitar.
I do have one friend who has met someone he met and it's worked out for 3 years now.Another friend met with someone once and he said it was the most awkward date he ever had.Good luck to all.
By the way...that is a good blog log...lots of room for theory here.Good one.