Meeting someone online

tahn you can not trust him i think

i dont know what to tell you ...depends..how long have u been together ?

Well, may be he… forgot! lol how about asking him directly on that? If after you asked, but he is still keep his profile without changing the status, then, may I suggest you do the same! :-)

How about, he doesn't know how to cancel his account.

@ kady2010...... He was intelligent enough to create his account here , so Im sure he knows how to deactivate it. Unfortunately relationships are different for guys than girls.... us girls tend to put more effort into it whilst guys want their gf but at the asme time want attention from other ppl. Stick there for a bit and if he leaves it there and youve had enough just leave. Its a sign that he doesnt respect you! I guess..... There again its my opinion.

I WOULDNT MIND KNOW THAT HE STILL HAS A PROFILE, I MEAN ME AND THIS GUY THAT WE`VE BEEN DATING FOR A WHILE, WE DO STUFF HERE... FOR INSTANCE WE CREATE QUIZES FOR EACH OTHER TO HAVE FUN AND SEE WHO GETS HIGHER SCORES, ITS TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER BETTER, AND WE LEAVE COMMENTS ON OUR PICTURES, AND STUFF LIKE THAT, I DONT NECESSARILY THINK THAT HE STILL TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS AND IF SO THEN HE WILL FIND EVEN MORE REASONS TO LOVE ME

and what exactly is wrong with that?

why would u want him to delete his profile here?

Is it gonna make a difference?

Try being less paranoid/jealous and give him some space dear .... u'll see that u won't regret it!

then again ... neither u did cancel your profile and not even your relationship status - which is "long term" at the moment! - here afterall...

I donno what women got in d head!!

First of all I would meet that person face to face and find out whether we really have a relationship.

yess first meet face to face thats the best way

10k is correct...

To VONNE,
10KHMS is right!!!...You don't really know him personally..Great!!, you met this guy in here??and You have a relationship??. Just assuming you know him personally, but that doesn't mean You hold the key to his heart ..Most of the guys that are in a relationship, but they're still fishing out there to find the better match for them.I wouldn't asks the guy to delete his profile, even I am seeing him for couple of months, and I hope He don't asks me to delete my profile either cuz i love to talk to the forums/blogs...just remember there's no guarantees until you marry the guy...

That's how I look at the world today....I am practical, considerate, loving and most especially down to earth, and have a sense of humor...But once I give my heart to a man that I like...I can feel if he wants me or not,,then I will give him the benefit of the doubts, and decide if His worth keeping....

He's not ready or serious about a relationship. Move on.

hi, have the same problem...he says he can't find away to delete his profile.
Realistically even if they did delete their prrofiles....they can always create another

Thanks guys for all the comments, certainly put things in perspective. Totally agree, moving on is the right thing to do.