single v relationship ... you choose

The grass in neighbor’s garden is always greener right? It seems that whenever you are in a relationship you say that you feel sorry for single people while under your breathe you say, "I wish." Single people seem to have all this freedom yet, suffer from being lonely all of the time. Or if you are single, then you will longing to have someone to share to and wish that you’re in the relationship now.
What’s the deal? Which is better? Well, you tell me.

These are things most people do it if they are in a relationship or not. The question is, who enjoys it the most?
1. Going to Bars
(a) When you are single: You are free to flirt with the opposite sex. There are no eyes on you that will make you feel guilty about what you are doing and who you are talking too. You can dress anyway you want, you can talk to anyone you want. And if you get really wasted? There is no one for you to fight with. And if you get laid that night, it could be that fun and exciting, "I have no idea who the f*ck this is kind of sex."
(b) When you are in a relationship: You always have someone to dance with, drink with, and talk too.You are almost guaranteed sex that night. You know where you are going at the end of the night and there is always someone there to take care of you when you are done.

2. Watching TV or Movies
(a) When you are single: You don't fight over the remote control. Men don't have to be burdened with chick flicks and women don't get stuck watching action movies.
(b) When you are in a relationship: You have someone to snuggle with. You can laugh together, and talk about the movie or show with someone. You may even see a movie that you loved that you might have never taken a second glance at if you weren't with someone.

3. Sleeping
(a) When you are single: You get the whole f*cking bed to yourself. No one snoring, hogging the covers, or doing the unnecessary over cuddle strangling you from getting a good nights sleep. You wake up when you wake up, and you go to bed when you want to go to bed.
(b) When you are in a relationship: You can cuddle. You feel the security of someone else in your bed. You have someone there to get you water, or scratch you back. And lets not forget the spoon and grind when you first wake up in the morning.

4. Shopping
(a) When you are single: You go to your stores. You go for as long or as short as you want to. You try on whatever you want and you don't have someone second guessing your decision or more importantly, how much you are spending
(b) When you are in a relationship: You have someone to keep you company. You have someone to bounce ideas off of. You can make sure that your significant other doesn't buy stuff that makes them look stupid, and you might have someone there to help you keep your spending in check.

5. Sex
(a) When you are single: Each time is like the first time. You are being touched, kissed, and banged in a different way every time. Its new, its exciting, and you don't have to deal with all of the emotional baggage that comes with being with
(b) When you are in a relationship: This is your person. They know you and your body. You don't have to worry about who they have been with, how to please them, or if they are going to be there in the morning.

It doesn't matter if you are single or with someone. There are undeniable advantages in certain situations where being one is better than the other.
So my question to you is this. 1-5 what would you rather be in that circumstance and why?
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NO CONTEST, TO BE REALLY HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHP, HAS A MAGIC ALL ITS OWN, MANKIND IS GIFTED WITH ONLY 2 KINDS OF REAL MAGIC, CHILDBIRTH, AND TRUE LOVE, BEING SINGLE, ISENT EVEN ON THE RADAR.
Sweet, Innocent, Cute, little j Bunny, . .

You always have someone to dance with, drink with, and talk too.You are almost guaranteed sex that night???, . . .Oh, no, no, no, no, no,. . professor

If a guy makes one tiny little joke, . laugh . to a very cute, young waitress, . and she happens to smile, . . .cheering .

. . He will be immediately cut off, . . from All human contact, . . .for two at least, . two weeks, . . blues

I'm talkin, no drinkin, no food, no smiles, no talkin, . .and especially, no bedroom activities, . . for two long weeksfrustrated
singleship...i'd ruther say...teached me a lot of things i didn't had the chance to discover being with someone. But I would happily return to "restrains" just to have the oportunity to share little big things.
Nice blog !hug cheers
sorry to post twice, . . but i really like your blog, . .

I kinda don't know how, . . to be single, . . yet, . . but what I learned from your blog was, . . .

Being Single: . .
#1. When you are single: You are free to, . . .
#2. Its new, its exciting, and you don't have to deal with , . . .
#3. Each time is like the first time.

Being a couple;
#1, . You know where you are going at the end of the night and there is always someone there to take care of you when you are done.
#2. the spoon and grind when you first wake up in the morning.
#3. And the last, . .and Very most Important, . . You have someone to bounce ideas off of.

JMHO, . . . .
very nice blog, . . by the way, . .
1. going to bars
2. Watching TV or Movies
3. Sleeping
4. Shopping
5. Sex

I think in a relationship if you still bother above matters then something wrong with the relation or you have not changed yourself to adapt to the new status properly.

Something wrong here can be
- You are in relationship with someone who you don't truly care of
- Or you are in relationship with someone who is not really compatible with you.

The difficulty is not to start a relationship, the difficulty is how to run it happily and long (for a whole life). And that is the true relationship.

In other words when you truly care of someone and that one cares you in the same way then you can run a relationship without bothering those matters you have addressed I think.

But whatever why don't we start it with a beer
cheers
loved reading all of your feedback guys. I'm not here to tell you whether it's right or wrong as I feel it's everyone to their own really. grin
well as you said there are advantages and disadvantages in each situations and if the best is probably being in many relationships at the same time and the worst being in a relationship with the wrong person, I think an acceptable settlement might be being with the right partner ....grin wow
b all the way.
What is "spoon and grind"? I can't find it online. Is that where you find yourself engaged in s*xual intercourse before any words are said for the day?
spooning is a position and grinding is...well grinding rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Ok. Thank you.
I kinda think spoonin is to gently wrap your arms around your little woman like two spoons in a drawer and kinda when she moves around a little, it is kinda really, really, really cool dancing
Nice blog...interesting.
Yup I quite agree that to be with "right parter" is better than any choice between those alternatives
Thanks for the blog!
(Anyway, to be in relationship is my preference)
im happy being single but i think its our destiny as the human race to have a partner,when God saw Adam was sad,he gave him Eve,sum say Steve I tend to disagree lol
hello, beauty.wave

my family all hurry to find me a husband, but i am happy to be single because it is free!!

Linna
well it looks like these'spooning and grinding 'have not been fully understood , maybe you can be so kind to provide further details like draws,pics,wikireferences dear blogger ? grin
Hey Sweet little Bunny, . .
I got ya covered, . . I'll try and answer this question, . .

. . . . . . . Spooning and Grinding
Something Irish girls excel at:
Both people face in same direction, . . Woman arms by her sides, Man behind her, with arms over hers, . , . .in a vice like, but protective grip, . .'
Man holds her gently, but Very Firmly, . .and gives her the increased sense, . . . of security and contentment. . . .
Then, . . their legs become lovingly entwined, as they slowly and meaningfully, run the soles of their feet, over each others calves and ankles ending in , vice like intertwinement.
. . Man then kisses very softly, upon the back of woman’s beautiful, delicate, sensual neck, (while gently whispering ,his thoughts of love for her, . .and proclaims his enchantment, . . with her provocative, innocent beauty, . . softly, . . in her ear). . .

. Woman starts to get warm, . . . . . . . (Are ya keeping up with me, . . So far?) professor

Then, . .woman slowly starts to move her backside, (bum) in a systemic, rhythmic, circular, motion pressing increasingly, . . harder against her Mate . . . . (Circular grinding motion, is advisable with motivational, inspiring. soft, music in the background, . . highly recommended)

, . . Man starts to get warm, . . . . . . . ok?.professor

Then, as the young couple increase the frequency, of aforementioned grinding, the male’s arms start to very slowly but lovingly, increase pressure over hers, as if to trap her heart, and soul, even more.heart beating
She intrepidly, begins to surrenders herself, . . mind and body, . . . And in response,, . . increases frequency of the continuous grinding motion, . . . .and the passionate rapture, increasingly starts to build, . heart wings like an ancient, , long forgotten, volcanic, mountain that has only mere moments left, . . before total eruption and the passionate hot lava begins to flow . . . From Mount Olympus.
And pretty darn soon, . . .the man’s vice like grip will break free, and as one hand starts to stealthily make it’s way downward, as if exploring her passionate young body, for the very first, magical time, . . . .the other hand, . comes in to caress. . . . a willing, . . . and highly motivated sweet, tender, breast, . kiss

I actually got about three more paragraphs, . . . But I don’t want to take up your whole blog, . . .

Sorry, . . j bunny, . . . I think I talk, . . .too much, . . .

(I’m kinda crackin up laughin, . .here, . Cause most folks should already, . . know this) and if they don’t , . . they should go out and grab a little woman, and start doing some practicing, . . . . . . . . . . . . ok?
. .yay
I think is better in a relationschip..when respecting each others freedom......

A relationschip it is not a jail...but we have to learn to comunicate..and discuss about things..even painfull sometimes...

and ask..our partener:--What do you want to do???

and Why???....

cheers
PS. Bottomline: Ya can't really enter, your little woman at the startin line, . . of the Grand Prix, . . . unless ya kinda warm her up a little and get her little engine, . . humming, . . doh
jester: i nearly peed a little laughing reading you're explanation. brilliant! couldn't have put it better myself rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sweet Darlin Funny Bunny,

It is true, that I have made a few little women, . . Wet . . . cool . . . before, .

. . . but I have never made any of them Pee, . . before. . . doh

I Thank You, . . . for the lovely complment, because it is Magnified, . . a thousand fold, . . coming from such a sensually provacative, little Irish Lass, . . .such as yourself, . . . .. yay


PS. . . .Let's just Hope, . . .that no one asks what, . "Wet", . . .means, . .roll eyes
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