girl repellant

Its ironic, the doom of the situation that a lot of guys end up in. they are very lonely and just want someone in their life, but dont have someone, so they get depressed. and the ladies dont want depressed guys, they want fun, outgoing manly men, not sad men. so this lonely guy who just wants someone to love, ends up repelling them, just from the fact that he is lonely and sad. he may get a little interest out of pity, but eventually those girls move on, cuz they dont want to be their boyfriends therapist, they want to be swept off their feet by romance, not an emotional crutch, so they move on in search of a better catch. after all, depressed ppl are kinda weird and annoying sometimes. the one thing that would pull him out of his rut, is the thing that his rut ruins for him. how can he get out of his depression by finding love, when he cant find love, because of his depression? ppls advice is always the same, just get yourself up, get out there and find someone. when your stuck in that dark lonely place, that is easier said than done, and usually said by ppl who have no trouble finding romance. its also ironic that chicks seem to be drawn to the type of guy that doesnt really need a relationship in his life, or at least acts like it. women want that strong, rugged, knightly kind of guy, who is a rock to her. she wants to be able to curl up like a little girl and be carried away in his arms. even the women who claim to be all independent and strong on their own, they want a strong man who they can lean on, not some guy who needs comfort. women want to be comforted, not the comforter. they want the kind of guy who suddenly grabs her by the waist, picks her up and sets her on the counter top in the kitchen and passionately makes out with her, not the kind of guy who needs himself picked up out of his sad slump on his bathroom floor. sad too, that these studly manly men, who the ladies just adore and cant keep their hands off of, also move on easily, in search off another pot of honey. yet the ladies just cant help themselves. and the lonely guy can only watch this pathetic game being played out, with no part in it of his own.