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It is normal from time to time I have a crisis of conscience: "I have shown so much affection for that person who did not show any feeling for me, gave no value or importance" But where is it written that you just have to do things the expected return ? The reason I would say that before you show affection to wait to learn more, see if you have an affinity for reciprocity and only then with this certainty is that you have shown your affection. But who has that certainty? I love a person today who seem to worship me and nothing to me person "desadora" who answers it? You did something? No, I did not do anything, just talked about when I could not bear the scorn and then just said what should not, I was sincere and that was enough for only one me "desadorar," I do not condemn, are personal choices.
I do not regret having shown my affection for someone who "desadorou for nothing, my only regret precipitation of having misinterpreted the signs, misunderstanding to think that sign was answer some bond of friendship. But who makes no mistakes? Not really I will curse and condemn the things I said or did because at that moment I was being truthful and be honest is not a sin, sin is to pretend that everything is just so wonderfully not contradict each other, pretending this is not for artistic I do not know pretend sympathy for free by anyone.

I appreciate those who appreciate me and captive who captivates me even while there is feedback from the other side I'll always be loving and loving others because they like it, but if I realize I waste my time and affection then I understand that people do not want to receive them and take my team to field no longer bother, other times I saw that question is not a good idea, the better to sneak out even without asking for explanation.

The mistake is in me that I love and love people and I deserve to captivate me

Elayninha-BR

Comments (4)

hen_gugu●Americus, Georgia USA

Nov 28, 2010●51 Comments

hello beauty.

"I have shown so much affection for that person who did not show any feeling for me, gave no value or importance"

I guess it is like this: You show your affection honestly to that person, so that person does not value you any more. That is just my experience.

craig63●estepona, Andalusia Spain

Nov 28, 2010●17 Blogs●62 Comments

i think we have all been there so you are not alone. I also am a romantic and affectionate person and must admit i love kisses and cuddles but that is not the onlt way to show some-one you love them. If you are not getting the love and affection you feel you deserve then move on there are plenty of fish in the sea.
good luck