Not sure if home or buying a bicycle?

Generally, those claiming a decision is one that wants to get married and know that very well! Who does not want or is in doubt, go "pushing with the belly," letting life happen to see what is going to give up front.

However, even apparently "undecided" does not suffer, it may not be exactly true. Also because, if there was someone who really had absolutely sure you do not want to compromise, certainly not get involved. But that's not what happens.

Even those who do not know what he wants, prefers to "stay", kiss, have fun and enjoy the delights of a romantic rendezvous to stand alone. That is, the vast majority of human beings - not to run the risk of generalizing all saying - or, above all, sharing your life with someone.

Perhaps here would fit well the famous verse of our dear Vinicius de Moraes: "Fundamental is the same love. It is impossible to be happy alone. " Yes, because alone, alone, do not know anyone who actually wants to stay!

So why is it that turns and moves, know or hear of one guy or one that is-so-but-not-dating, dating-but-not-home, or even home-but-not-behave- as-such? How difficult or afraid to take a full commitment to all liens and bonds means that this choice?

And boy, this dilemma should be nothing new, nothing should also have something to do with modernity or the facilities of virtual meetings, as quoted by our grandparents, on occasion, the famous dictum "the subject does not know if home or purchase a bicycle. " That is, the history of doubt comes from afar!

Yes, of course, is not always easy to take such an important decision without having any duvidazinha even. However, this is very different relationships to go dragging on indefinitely. This table shows first of all, someone who urgently needs to invest in self emotionally mature and able to make choices that allow you and others the view that it is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Because until that happens, what we see are people tired of a charge position, uncertain by the lack of certainty of the other and even, depending on the level of "embromation" feel like a proof that love which seems phony!

Well, if we can not deny that those who go on holding some more, always waiting for the decision of the other, is certainly contributing to the situation lasts, we can not - in any way - simply absolve those who stay on the fence, warming place, delaying the lives of others, never take the next step!

Nobody is forced to a "yes" which is not right, that's true. But is everyone's duty, rather, be sincere, clear, transparent and objective. Do not want to marry or not sure? Okay. It's your right! But if this scenario is becoming a Mexican soap opera storyline, so even at the risk of being alone, at least to be authentic and honest enough to say with all the other letters, flatly, no bullshit, no excuses, no-lero lero.

Finally, try this exercise, but be consistent. Say whether or not you are unsure about how to fly and continue circling over bread pudding, is pure cowardice. Who wants to marry has always hoped that others also want, and this desire makes perfect sense. So do not you volunteer to disappoint, and make bitter dry sense of who loves you so much ... This is certainly demonstrated by the attitude of the other, at least, respect and consideration!