My mind is restless!!
Obviously we seem to be doing something wrong with the way weuse dating sites to find our partner or soul mate. We hear it
all the time "plenty more fish in the sea" & all the others.
So it leaves me to wonder, why isn't this working & why are
there so many people alone. Maybe asking themselves this.
Why are we on these dating sites for so long? Why when many
of us send a well thought out message to someone of interest
to them. Do the message's go unnoticed many times. Then it's
either read with no reply, or deleted & not read.
This may sound foolish but what if there are so many people
& so many choices, we're all like kids in a candy store! So
many choices & decisions. We decide to take one that catches
our eye, nothing wrong with it, perfectly fine. Then we start
to think, Well this one's great but "what if" yes
those are two words that can alter our decisions regarding
many decision's in our lives. So "what if" the candy is perfect
but...but maybe we should keep looking. There may be one down
the way that's "even better"
Just my opinion.
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All we need to do is find someone with similar goals and then make it work It's give 100% of yourself and trust that the other person is doing the same.
Keep it simple Keep it positive and keep hanging in there
At the end, I am considering the idea it might be well worth the money to become a member of a paying site. Anyway, good luck to you all.
time there needs to be an element of attraction. Which would be
part of my search. I'm sure "superficial" wouldn't apply to me.
However,(dare I say it) there are many out there who are.