where have all the single women in NZ gone to

supposedly in my town there are a lot more single women than men , so it,s said ,I would like to know where they have all gone to hahah and for that matter what age group they are supposed to be .
when you are my age most of your friends are already hitched an with kids .
I,m not into meeting ppl in bars , so where do I go ?
or perhaps i,m looking at this the wrong way an stop thinking that I can meet my future love just simply by wishing to do so ?
perhaps I should leave it up to that fateful moment ?
eh who knows ?