whats the problem???

i just dont get it... is there something wrong with my profile? is it my pics? am i not that attractive or something? why is it that i'm not getting any responses on here? i get many profile views from all these people and yet not a single hello, or simple hi or anything. i've been told numerous times that i should send emails and go into the chatrooms and stuff to be noticed and i've done that. hell even when i send emails out, they just get read and deleted and i never get any response. if you're not interested could you at least tell me that rather than leave me wondering what you're thinking? is it really that difficult to say no thanks or not interested. i'm a grown man, i can handle the rejection. but i just want to know what it is about me or my profile hat makes people not want to respond to me?? can anyone tell me that?