St Valentine can kiss my a.s.s.

I haven't posted on here or been on this site in a while. I had met someone who I actually liked a lot, as picky as I am. After seeing each other for a month or so, things were going great. As of this weekend we had plans to get together for Valentines day, Sunday comes around and she is suddenly distant. I am pretty understanding and all so I figure she must have just had a busy day. Then after a call and text wishing her a good Valentines day and telling her I can't wait to see her, I don't here from her all Valentines day...until 8pm when she sends a text saying, I don't want to string you along and I really like you a lot but we shouldn't see each other again. Wow nice kick in the F'ing nuts. Happy Valentines day to me...For the first time in a long time I actually really liked this girl, really enjoyed our time together, and I got burnt....on Valentines day. Just when I thought that things were changing in my life and I could let someone into it, I get reminded why I have been single for so long and why I am so picky and so skeptical about others. So...Happy Valentines day to all, I hope it was great to you. I guess I'll have to wait another year to have a Valentine....
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ooohh mann...doh such a disappointing story...but keep searching there are lots of fish in the ocean....sad flower
Dont wait for next year, every day is a Valentine day for a loving heart...
-Let's wait and see - said one turkey to another conversing ....the day before Thxgiving...dunno rolling on the floor laughing
it's not Valentines to blame..just pp...
sounds like you were not the only one she was seeing...you'll meet the right one yet..don't worry and till then chin up..
Her loss sweetheart,dont give up..she must be crazy.comfort
Dear Trifon,
From what i have read about you it is she that is the one losing out here-you are a great guy and have alot to offer, when you meet the one you are to be with-God will join you two together. I have been waiting nine years now and i still have faith that I will be blessed with just the right person(twin flame) and if I do not then that's ok also. Who I am and what I live for is not dependant on someone else to make me happy. I am at peace with who I am and that is enough.
Ok Trifon..Now I see what the problem is..Your picking women much younger and getting the same results..Not saying you should pick someone older either..Just saying a lot of men do that, they pick a female 10, 20 or even 30 years younger and expect that girl to be as mature at her age as he is.
She is most likely looking for a guy her age or possibly even younger and you fit in for a month inbetween them?
Ive met men who were 40 and crying about some 25 year old he married who he caught in "his" bed with another guy her own age.
Dont know what to tell ya here but it sounds like you want a girl much younger than yourself and are gonna have a hard time finding one who will be mature or like guys older?
I would suggest you date a girl at least 30 who has proven she knows what she wants, before you start getting your hopes up.
For me, I wont take any guy seriously online unless hes dated me for minimum 3 months and proves hes real and not a player..Good luck in your search..cheers
That is very sad, especially on Valentine's day. Don't give up though. There is someone out there for everyone.
Well, after reading your blog and checking your profile I really cannot understand why you're single. You sound like a neat package to me.

All I can say is, her loss, and I know you may find this hard to believe but it's actually your gain. One day someone even better will come along. Now just think, if you were trapped in a relationship that was going nowhere you'd miss the opportunity, but now you won't.

I wish you all the best in finding her :). She is out there somewhere.
Sorry that happened but I guess she did you a favor not to waste your time.
Picky ........
Don't go for perfection.
I wish you the best next time.

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awwwh sweetie that is awful. i am so sorry that happened to you. that shouldn;t have happened at all as it isn;t nice to play with someone's feelings and emotions like that. the worst part was she did it on valentines day too. well sweetie she won;t have a good one next year as she just jinxed hers for good and you will be with someone sweeter and offer you more that she did and it will be so much better for you i promise you hunni.!!!! i guarantee you you will find the true love of your life before next year and be celebrating valentines with your valentines in time for christmas valentines day, as you are too good looking and sweet a man to not be with that special woman. i can feel t coming for you and i am a good judge of matters of he heart for others and am ususually right on with it. so don;t worry sweeite she will find you and you will be inseparable i know it. keep your chin up hottiepants she is right around the corner waiting for you and she will come to you.
Well, at least you made it to Valentines Day. I got the "let's be friends" thing the day before and haven't heard from her since.

And I hate it when someone writes "There are more fish in the sea"! Really?!? What good is that, when there are maybe about two that interest you and they would rather swim someone else? You know, I was always thinking about joining a monastery... But who am I kidding; hanging around a bunch of guys, praying all day... Nope. Not for me.

Hope you don't mind me joining your pity party. Hey, and I'm not trying to be mean. A little self-pity never hurt. Take your time, bud. But don't party too long... Out. handshake
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