trust
I am trying to learn how to trust... it's hard to do you know? I have been in a relationship for 18 years... widowed now for 2 plus years... I am ready to love again... but I am finding it hard to do. After 2 yaers I felt it was time... I started looking... I came on this site and fell for a scammer... no damage done,,, really... but now I find it hard to trust again. (well that's enough damage right?) I have been talking to this great guy. Seems sincere. Seems like a great guy. I am being extra careful because I don't wanna get scammed again. Because I am being cautious he feels I am being untrustworthy of him... what do I do? I have asked for patience and is awaiting his reply... I want to trust again... I want to love again... I want to be loved again. But I'm lonely - not stupid... I want to take time... Right now I feel so confused ... I don't know why I'm writing this - guess I just needed to vent... wish me luck friends...
Comments (7)
Regardless of how good things seem, always be on your guard, but thats not to say be mistrusting, just be cautious, explain to any prospective souter whats happened to you and if he is worth it and cares for you then he will understand, these things take time.
All the best, and I hope you find true happiness soon :-) x
That's why relationships are hard. Even if we're just attempting to please the other person, if we're not being our true selves, there is at least a little (well-intended) deceit going on.
If you can be your true self... share your honest feelings and opinions... and are met with skepticism, I'm not sure if you've found the right person yet.
Trust concerns are baggage (from any type of prior relationship) ... and all of us have baggage of one kind or another ... it's just human.
Good luck!
Better safe than sorry ...
Take things S-L-O-W ... very ..v-e-r-y SLOW. Trust has to be earned.
patience.
if you want to make a second attempt why not?God will be with you. always think that loneliness is a misery trust your heart and your experience.
madame.
de la patience,est surtout de la patience est jamais prendre des soucies,si tu as envie de faire une deuxième tentative pourquoi pas?est que dieu soit avec toi. la solitude est une misère est les jours passent. la vie est courte,fait confiance a ton coeur est ton expérience.