met someone
i have met someone from the netfunny as he was not my type at all looks wise and dismissed him at first by the way he looked but he was persistant and so in the end ended up going on a date with him
at first i thought nope this would never work, it defiantly was not love at first sight
but
we have been spending more and more time together, my kids get on with him, turns out he already knew my mum and sister and that our kids go to the same school plus i already know his sister and now have met his mum lol
things seem to be going really well, i still question certain things but i realise that i am looking for perfection rather than just enjoying his company and having someone who generally wants to spend time with me and my kids which is all i ever wanted so lets see where this goes
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Lots of blessings!
Good luck and God Bless
If he truly wants to spend time with you that is a real plus. :) Many times in a relationship couples don't give each other a lot of time but "make it up" with other gestures (i.e., shower you with gifts but only see you twice a week). This same behavior will manifest in a marriage (they will be out with friends, at work, or the bar instead of home with you.)
It looks like you understand the most important things in a relationship. And looks do change over the years...never marry a body.
your all so right....... perfection does not exist and sometimes we get too wrapped up trying to find our trophey boy/girlfriend instead of looking for that someone who can and will give us what we need
its no good finding yourself a trophey boy/girlfriend if they dont want to spend quality time with you and is always prominsing to make it up to you or they think showering you with gifts make it up as it doesn't and your right if you get that to start of with then your get that forever more
this guy i am seeing pops round every day, there is never an excuse or reason to why he cant and he works long hours and has kids too who he has to see etc but he still manages to find time to see me and give me quality time which means more to me than anything but we both know and understand that we need our space too so we give eachother that aswell even though we see eachother every day, i can really see this lasting and yes the kids liking him helps, he comes round after working 12 hours sometimes and he has the dog jumping up at him, my 5 year old diving on him and my 15 month holding her arms out to him wanting him to pick her up and yet he plays with them etc
my eldest too he talks to them and winds them up but in a nice way, its just lovely to have him around