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I thought I was the luckiest lady in the world

I met this man (Caucasian, now 61) and have married to him for 9 years. In this nine years, I thought I was the luckiest lady in the world. I have found my soul-mate! We have our happy life together. However, I found out he has a mistress since this May. She is a 18 years old college student. He was caught in mid June. He promised he would not do this again; he told me he loved me very much. I trusted him.

Later, he was caught in late August with this same lady. I asked for a divorce. I packed and left home and he went from thousands miles away to find me and beg me back home. He promised that he would not do that again. He would not do thing like that to hurt me. I trusted him AGAIN!

Now, he was caught with that lady again last week. Enough for me. Three is a crowd! I want to back off with this relationship. I asked for a divorce again to let him to have that lady. He promised he would not do that again. Should I trust him AGAIN?
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Jan1305
Jan1305●Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
Dec 26, 2007●9 Blogs●22 Comments
#1
Well sweetie, if you are on a singles site and you are separated, according to your profile, then I guess you've already made up your mind not to trust him again.

Good luck.
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unlucky
unlucky●Hamilton, Pembroke Bermuda
Dec 26, 2007●11 Comments
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Dear Shea201
I belive you know the answer already, a 61 year old man with a 18 year old. He has been caught 3 times, how many times has he not been caught? he will probley do it again and hope not to get caught. He wants you full time and have a part time love on the side, 18 year old or some esle. You pobley still love him. As i told a neice early this week. " I know i feel about a famiely member but how does that famiely member , honestly feel about me? Ask your self the same question, i belive you know the answer GOOD LUCKYcomfort
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Midnightstar
Midnightstar●North Yorkshire, England UK
Dec 26, 2007●2 Comments
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Personally I wouldn't trust him. As he's already been found out 3 times what's to say he wont do it again. At the end of the day there's only so much you can take. He's promised you on 3 occasions he'll never do it again, make sure he doesn't by walking away......best thing you could possibly do for your own sake & peace of mind.

All the best to you whatever yu decide to do, thumbs up santa
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davehaz
davehaz●Anaheim, California USA
Dec 26, 2007
#4
hey all I can say is kudos to the 61 year old guy for bagging an 18 year old student. Doesn't say much for either ones integrity, but hey way to go old guy. Out here in sunny SoCal they sell a lot of t-shirts that say Old Guys Rule, I guess he proved that one right.
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WhiteAsh
WhiteAsh●Turtle Lake, Wisconsin USA
Dec 27, 2007
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I would let him go. You are to good for him.
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alex222
alex222●Costa Mesa, California USA
Dec 27, 2007
#6
So far three times got caught in a short period of time, I call tell you are quite a smart lady. You have such the ability to track him down.

Even though I am a man, I would support you by suggesting you should leave him, ask him stay out of your life. You deserve a better gentleman.
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jhorse4
jhorse4●unknown, California USA
Dec 29, 2007
#7
Don't believe him any more. In California, there is a law - THREE TIMES OUT! Still many nice men out there!
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nonche
nonche●Hamar, Hedmark Norway
Feb 25, 2009●4 Comments
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For me just one time enough and no second chance. Th eone that make it one time can make few more.
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