Honesty

Honesty is the key success In a relationship, any relationship, complete honesty is always needed. In fact, honesty should be part of the relationship's foundation. The principle behind it is that basically, no one likes being lied to, and if a relationship is to flourish, it should not be peppered with lies.

Lying with words is simple enough to pull off but easy enough to detect. No matter how smooth and suave the lie has been delivered, we all have an innate sense of knowing that we were lied to. Just feeling that we have been deceived already hurts, regardless of whether it was done deliberately or not.

But there is another form of lying that is more dangerous than lying with words. It is called emotional dishonesty. There are times that you like the person so much that you would do anything to keep him /her with you. You would change your manner of speaking, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair, your personal routine, everything about you, just to please him/her. In effect, you are lying to yourself by not staying true to your own identity, and you are lying to him/her as well for showing him/her a different person than who you really are.
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great thoughts
so TRUE applause
Good blog, kinda agree too thumbs up

Thanks for already share it wine
You may be sayin the right thing but really iv always been honest and upfront with things and yet iv always been lied to over and over plenty whats the point in fighting lies with none if in the end you get hurt and the best thing that happens to you walks away
Complete rubbish. There are some things which its best to keep quiet about, never mind about "complete honesty". And its a universal truth that once you have told a woman "the complete truth", a) you can never take it back and b) you will never be allowed to forget it. Judging by your blog I can only assume you haven't had many relationships, if you had you would know better.
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