A 'perfect' relationship

My brother is currently in a relationship and it's looks too perfect for my liking(at least on the outside).I know it's good to have a wonderful relationship without fights and curses but something is different in theirs.
Sometimes i sense tension and raw anger building up between them but they end up shying away from it.But those questions left unanswered,all those anger cleverly concealed,all those matters partially resolved and sometimes resolved with biased judgements all in the name of building a relationship they wish will end in marriage and still there.
If you ask me,i think those misunderstandings and temper-boiling topics should be trashed once and for all and flushed down the drain.There is nothing like a perfect relationship.If tempers should flair,there is no better time than now!

I always wish him the best,yes and i always will.But honestly,i think those topics are going to resurface later in their marriage(thats if they end up getting married)and i think it's going to have strong roots then...
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i agree completely; u are wise;
you are right! a relationship has to build through the years threw communication and a little conflict if you just let things hang out there they expand and eventually blow up. its always best to solve the issues imediately when they are still small
never mind just let your brother handle his love life.
Interesting. I did see that someone said "just let your brother handle his love life". And I can see that point. However, its obvious you love your brother, and want only good things for him. You're right, its good to get things out in the open...but even then you dont have to fight...you can actually talk things out. So, just working w/ your perception of things, and your concerns...maybe if rather than avoiding their conflicts, they actually talked about them..maybe that would be better.

The thing is, we dont know. Maybe they ARE talking them out...but in private, in personal time, pillow talk, etc. Prayer is always the best solution in times like these, in my humble opinion--in times where you are concerned, but not really in a position to intervene.

jade
To-WINHA & FATSHAFT

Thanks alot for your wonderful comments.I appreciate.

To-MARIELUKE

I know its his love life and i let him handle it.I never interfer.I'm only concerned cos after all is said and done,he's still my brother and its been that way since we were kids.

To-JADE

Thanks alot.I'll never stop praying for him.
To-WINHA & FATSHAFT

Thanks alot for your wonderful comments.I appreciate.

To-MARIELUKE

I know its his love life and i let him handle it.I never interfer.I'm only concerned cos after all is said and done,he's still my brother and its been that way since we were kids.

To-JADE

Thanks alot.I'll never stop praying for him.
Just maybe they discuss thier issues in private...and thats why you see them holding back because they dont want to fight or discuss it in front of you or any body else.
It's quite evident that you have concern for your brother.However it may just be a simple case of two people who have enough love for each other,not wanting to hurt each other by fighting.Also what you see as lack of communication may be disapline.Practicising self control instead of fighting could mean they are a very mature couple.
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