average guys finish last

u ever see a beautiful woman be mistreaated and cheated on by a bad boy . and yet she will deal with everything he puts her through just because he is so rugged and good looking .and us especially me who would treat her so perfect doesnt even get a glance .us average joes who are meek and shy and just plain well nice . will always finish last . if mr average would mistreat a beautiful woman she would turn away and never look back . we cant help the way we look but we certainly at least most of us know how to treat a woman like a queen.confused
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Swiss, what you said is true. But, if you think back to high school days....there are cliques -- and you can't seem to get accepted into one of the cliques. And you see the cheerleader only goes out with the jock -- or with the one who stands out the most. It's simple Darwinism. Survival of the fittest. A female bird wants only the fittest male, the one who stands out and who offers the greatest potential for her as a possible mate. It's all about passing on the genes to the next generation. So, this guy is saying that he is Mr. Average, he doesn't stand out in a crowd -- and so doesn't attract any attention.
Omegamike, ya but this isnt high school anymore..but then i did look at lonelydivorcee's profile and the age group in women he is looking for does start at 18.. LOL..maybe that is also part of his problem?
looking for girls that could be his daughters age instead of women?
my search range is 25 to 45 , (not 18) .and i apologize for the wrong idea goin accross not sayin all woman . but quite a few woman ,if u look around other relationships u see it happen everywhere .and its hard for most shy guys to have any confidence , because when we approach these beautiful woman just to say hi , we get ignored or shot down .like it or not it is a fact . again im not sayin all but quite a few.
lonelydivorcee..Your 44 and would date a girl 25?
I mean really..That is almost 20 years younger than yourself.
I hate to tell ya but most females around your age would look at your choice in age range and it would scare them off..
imsure you are right swiss u seem very intelligent i just figured 25 was mature enough to realize what u want in life but i can always change it later just wanted a decent range age really doesnt matter once a person hits their mid 20s i just wanted to keep all avenues open, my soon to be exwife was only 32(which was 12 years) so maybe u got a point there sorry to get u all worked up over my blog didnt mean to come accross that way
What's "nice" about being "meek and shy"? Its just boring, boring, boring. Thats the simple truth, its weak and unappealing and its little wonder that people like that dont win things. Life is competitive and with that sort of attitude you've lost even before the race started.
i sure would appreciate some pointers then happy
Have confidence and get some attitude. This will put some women off, but who cares? There are plenty more around who will go for it. Be prepared to be rejected and dont let it bother you, develop a tougher skin. It doesnt mean you have to treat women with disrespect, but it does mean you value yourself enough to expect respect in return. Thats all and then just go hunting.
ya you'er right on that senerio lonely ,but it is the same for women,i would suggest getting yourseff together first ,forget about trying to find your women for awhile.Get out and enjoy your freedom,the one you should be with ,will eventualy take place.
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