IT IS REAL !!!

Looks like im gonna be single now .. for a long time now !!

I've had enough of bad , negative relationships !!
it just puts you down .. and i gotta say .. it's not only guys fault .. it's women's fault as well ..
to open up more than a guy deserves !
You got me ?

Don't be too nice ..he would just behave like he owns you or something .. and all what you did ..is that you were being NICE and KIND to him !!!

Don't wanna be a Drama Queen right now roll eyes but hey !!
This is all happening for real GUYYYS !!! scold


You Take Care All wave

Swanrose
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some people are chronic attention seekers and the more attention u give 'em the more they will want. Its a positive feedback thing... tends to escalate till it finally explodes ....

happened to me... I was to blame... now a days... I admit it... and I believe I managed to correct it!

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There is nothing wrong with being alone.I have been so for 16 years.I made the decision as my relationships were getting shorter and shorter and costing me more and more in every possible way.
Being alone affords me the luxery of not having to explain myself to anyone or having to ask permission for this or that.I am free to engage in light(or not so light) dating if I so desire.I come and go as I please,answer to no one and don't have to live around arguments,and someone who goes on a pout because they didn't get their way.
Honestly I do not think I will ever give up this solitary existance as I very much enjoy it.Perhaps this is where you need to be,at least for the time being?
complaining complaining that's all i ever see you do why dont you embrace being alone for once .constructive criticism. take it how you want
stillframe can get pretty agitated at times, can't he?

ease up mate... she's down-hearted! can't u see that? breaks me heart seeing such a beauty in this state

moping
SINGLE LIFE totally ROCKS! ... This is YOUR time to be YOU. Do some retail therapy .. get ya hair, nails & stuff done .. feel good about yourself. .. one door closes another one opens ... ur young .. u have the world at your feet ... ENJOY!!! yay
@Stillframe
I get where you are coming from my man.But I personally think that "complaining" on these blogs is not nessesarily a bad thing.Why? because somebody may read what she's posted and say something that will make her change her mind on this.Lord knows if I got static for everytime I got on here and complained I'd be full of burn marks.
We can't be afraid to complain,and often Stillframe,when someone does complain it's really because they are hoping for someone to give them an answer.
i like my solitude .professor
Swan,

We've all been there and I can relate with you though I am at a time in my life where I feel that I am at peace with myself...whether I am single, married or dating someone, I have come to realize that life doesn't stop for anything or anyone and I want to live it.

So enjoy each moment and just know that if he is no longer with you it is probably because he doesn't deserve youwine
Awwwww! I wish you the best no matter what your status is! ;) you can call on me anytime you wana give it a try again or just to chat ;)
right never thought of it like that swan wish you the best sweet swanheart beating
Ah dear swan nothing wrong in being on your owm, to find yourself againhug Its like regrouping for the next afray dancing No I do not mock just try and enjoy a new peace withinyourself and then you can go forward with a lighter heartdancing
Yes daughter.rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Hey To All Of my Friends ..For Being so So Adorbly Sweet with the comments !! I do need good friends like you by my side as im always gonna be there for you whenever you need me teddybear
Love you all ..And Thanks agin for sharing your views with me ..
Gotta say ..Im just lucky to have such nice hearts with me in CS
Mwwwaaaaahhh

But let us take a stop in here ..Shall we ?

@ John !! I have never ever treated you with disrespect !!
I've always been there for u as a friend and a sister when ever you CRY OUT about your life , See, I've never COMPLAINED about this till now !!! John !! Doesnt mean that we had a little argument that day between us ..means that you have to hate on my blogs and poems the way you did .. And also !! You would say here that im COMPLAINING and than when someone opens your eyes That im not only complaining ..you would say ..oh okay ..Wish you the best Sweet Swan !! Well Tell you what my dear !!Im not Stupid and don't treat me that way !! please !! Respect me as I respected you all the way before !! We used to be so close !!but suddenly you would just flip out and change !! and I don't know why cuz i've never done anything to you !!!
Anyways .. Thanks alot for everything you did ..

Swan
Dearest Swan,

I'd say you are too naive and get excited quickly. My advice is not to jump on a relationship and engage your emotions so quickly. hug

You're a lovely person that's for sure.
really you think that but your wrong iv never disrespected just pointing out truth there was one poem but maybe over jealousy because at least you been in relationships for me its been twelve years of being alone. but on this blog it was constructive criticism because sometimes it helps people get stronger. but in that if i hurt anyones feelings i am sorry. i never called you stupid i think your very smart thanks john
@Redex
This is a much better picture than the other one you had.Keep this one up.The combination of the red with the baby blue is very nice.
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