love and a relationship

I have given this alot of thought, done research in the past and reached deep deep down inside my own mind way down where mushrooms begin to take you on a journey... No mushrooms in this journey. Just alot of deep thinking. Thinking about love and what makes up a working relationship. Love is an atachment to somthing. A very strong bond that causes you to do crazy things you wouldnt do with any other normal feelings. It makes you feel really good inside. It also gives a person the power to overcome situations that are normally difficult and usually wouldnt even be attempted to overcome. Love can also cause you to make decisions that are somtimes rash or illogical. It can also play with someones mind if they arent careful. With love it can be difficult to know when to toss in the towel or follow it to a dead end. I tend to do the second one always. Its foolish i know because i risk everything i feel for somthing that can bite back in the end and leave me emotionally hurt. Time heals hurt if the hurt is dealt with. I choose this type of journey for that edge and to satify my own curiosity. When you want somthing bad enough you will follow this choice. Try it sometime. Its a hard way to live. For some reason there are things i just cant leave alone until they leave me alone.

Relationships... There are many kinds. It is the balance that is most important. Kinda like a fire triangle where you need fuel, ogygen, and heat for fire to exist in any fire related situation. Three things must also exist and be in balence for a healthy relationship. Love i have already spoken of. This is the ingrediant that bonds everthing together and it must go both ways as do the other two. Trust. This takes time to devolope, and if its comprimised it starts all over if the relationship continues... Somtimes further back than it was in the begginning. The last one is communication. A lack of it can be very stressfull. Without it, everything falls apart. Being honest, letting the other one know what your thinking and planning, and choices you are making are important for this to work properly. Finding the balance of all three and having those three flow both ways to the person you love and from the person you love is the key thing to a healthy relationship. Its easy to love with little or no effort. Anyone can easily love anything, to get the love coming back can sometimes be a really big struggle. Sometimes there are situations when it was always there and never went away. It still has to be felt occasionally to know its still there. You ever tell someone on the phone "Still there" to see if the call was dropped? A really good relationship can take little or alot of effort depending on the balance it is at. If the love is strong enough, it should always be worth it. For me... I would rather know i tried and give it everything i could than not have tried at all and always wondered where it could have gone. This is largely tied in with personal comfort zones. Im always trying to push my comfort zone out further and further. If you know me and know where ive been and done and what ive gone through, then im sure you understand what im talking about. The funny thing about this... my own personal comfort is at its greatest when im with who i love most. Without this i freak out somtimes literaly, like in those Anime cartoons. I really crack myself up long afterwords over this. On the otherhand, when im dedicated to something... i put in alot of effort and its usually beyond insane. Many friends and family have seen this. Sometimes i even wonder about my never give up until i run into that dead end where i can go no further attitude. "Give up" is not in my volcabulary. My efforts always intend pride and quality. So should yours.
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Ash you are the person who always seems to be positive and inspirative.i always feel this lack in me.
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Will nothing much about me i am just me: will i'm Ash, i'm 23 years old, recently graduated from college, i have studied E-Business, i'm very social person, i hate lairs and rude people, i love to listen to all kind of music but i prefer Techno, and [read more]

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