Is it wrong for me to want the best of both worlds

i personally wouldn't.
but if it works for you, who's to say?

i knew a married guy in this situation.
eventually she left him for the other woman.

whichever way you choose,
make sure you are a hundred
percent comfortable with it,

because you don't want to have others
plant doubts in your head
AFTER you go through with it.

Well thank you very much on a responce.

I really love woman just as much as I do my man. I just dont know if it would work or not. We both say we will be fine about it.

one more thing,
you have plenty of time to explore those
options.

don't rush your decision.

Im not rushing it. I have been thinking about this for a long time. It would just be nice to have someone here with me while he is at work and not have him worry.

plus a bonus when he gets home he has 2 of us to take care of him.

no its not a girlfriend that i have. Im trying to find one that would be ok with that.

wow your boyfriend must really lv you. i mean it sounds good u hv a playmate while he's at work then he comes home and you all play together . lol but it's bound to eventually go bad one of you is going to fall for the other .then jealousy or u leave him for her or vic versa . if it worked probably everybody would do it . jmo.

@jana

stuff like this can bring out hostility sometimes.

if someone is against the whole idea for themselves,
and had a bad experience where they had a boyfriend that
tried to pressure them into that type of relationship,
they may automatically just assume that is always the case.

in some peoples minds it automatically becomes a,
"how dare he pressure you like that" thing.

even if it might have been her idea.
regardless of whose idea it was,

if a couple is in love and considering something like this,
they have their whole lives ahead to toy with the idea
before taking action, and to figure out if
it really is right for them or not.

i liked your response.

@pike
he is not pressuring me into anything.

@snb.
you didn't sound like he was.

o cool. well i was just seeing what people think about that! thats all. Im going to do what im going to do. Sometimes i just want to see what the world said about things like that. The is always going to be haters out there. That just makes me stronger. This was my first blog cause im new to the site and that is what came to my mind on writing about.

@jana
I truely agree with you. Haters love to pick on the weak. But, the sad thing is ITS not me. They can say what they want and im not going care a bit.

As long as everyone is in accordance with this situation and no one is being hurt physically, emotionally or otherwise...I say it's a personal decision

I don't dictate anything.. Everyone is responsible for their behavior.

guilty conscience . what's your excuse .

well,we not only post opinions, but opinions of opinions,
and then get opinions of those opinions.
whats your opinion?

i'd concur with your opinion of the opinion about the opinions. but all that does is take the blog way off subject because people feel the need to explain their opinion. jmo.

but, its really easy to get back on point,
and, if the blog is long, some may feel they are missing something going on in here,
and possibly drop off a new on point opinion to be
discussed while they are here. which could actually be helpful,
no?
and, give you something to do while waiting for someone to steer things back on point.

i'd say you hv a point their but if you read all the comments on this blog the main person saying something after other peoples comments has actually never gave a comment of her own on the subject. go look im not making this up.

ah. it does take some of the punch out of it if there isn't anything constructive left behind as well.
well now, it appears that i was quick to be steered in a
direction because of my experiences.
where have i heard something like that before?

im not trying to put anyone on blast here like she did. but the comments don't lie if i don't hv a real comment to give on a blog i simply pass it by. some people don't practice what they preach . the comments speak for themselves . lol

somewhat back on point,
i am going to make an assuption, that may or may not be true.

that most open minded people (in regards to these kinds of topics)
were probably more conservative at one time or another.


do you think open minded people are more tolerant of
conservative minded people,
than conservative minded people are of open minded people?

i just wonder, because if the open minded person had been more conservative at one time, they may have a little
understanding into conservative thinking,
but probably not the other way around.

i was trying to get back on topic.

but now we are back to opinions of opinions of opinions.

not really i think she outed 2 people on this blog. i'd say that's part of the blog subject . JMO

Well I dont see anything wrong with sharing my man with who i want or he wants and how many woman.

hi snb i don't think i should comment on your blog anymore i've been informed my opinions are going to be checked out by the overseers before i can post them .

o really why is that? I havent seen any problems with ur comments.

see you haven't but it seems others amongst us. have taken some umbridge. to a few certain comments im not sure who it is. but im frightened hold me. LOL

Do be scared. Im cool with everything!!

ok i feel better now.

Well thats great!!! I just like to see how people react to certain things i guess.

me to i like seeing how they react to. lol

It's funny that I never mentioned any name :) It was a nice opportunity to see different reactions though!

yeah right i never mentioned any names either . i just commented on the blog like everyone else did except you.

Wow everyone has their thoughts on this. But what is really sad is one has to go to another blog and say something about me. Not cool. If you have to do that then dont say anything on my blog.

But its cool/

Im just me. I like woman