Being single in today's world....

Oh my, let me tell you what....my last serious relationship was 2 years ago, thought I'd give myself a much needed break. A friend of mine decided to get me out of the house Friday night because I have become a self induced work-a-holic. The single scene today is SCARY!
You have to dress a certain way (preferably with cleavage and a short skirt it seemed), act a certain way (the "I broke a nail syndrome"). I danced with a few guys and sat at the bar and chatted with a few others, but you know as nice as a few of them were, none of them really made me want to learn more about them. They just seemed to have such low self-esteem and have such a negative attitude (caused by a prior relationship or two I am sure) that I wanted to call it a night and snuggle up with my poochie Sophie and watch cable.

I am known by friends to be an open, honest, caring, drama-free, as real as it gets country girl. I know that I don't want to live my life alone anymore, and I don't want to settle for just anyone. I want to find "my partner"......"my best friend!"
Being single in today's world is definitely scary, but what is even scarier is remaining single!

Look up my profile and feel free to get in touch.

AlabamaGurl
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keep moving forward ........... it's like looking for a new used car you might have to look at a hundred of them before you find one you like ..laugh
Is it an open Auction of used stuff? yay
adam...One thats not quiet as broken as the last one you looked at? And that goes for the blogees blog too !!!!grin devil
It's hard, especially when you have remained single for a long time, even more so when you live alone for a long time.

I think maybe something like that is more difficult for a man to pull back from. You get used to being single and alone -- used to doing things a particular way. And after awhile, the "getting used to it" becomes more comfortable than not.

If I was sitting in a bar and a woman came up and sat next to me, I probably would be scared to death and wouldn't know what to say or do. You kind of lose to the where-with-all to socialize -- and it is very hard to get it back, properly.

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Hi Everyone, thanks for the comments...I wish you all the best in your search!

Monica
aka AlabamaGurl
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