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Why is it acceptable for black men to date white women and frowned upon when black women date white men???
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I don't know that it is acceptable or not. Frowned upon or not. I haven't dated that much, but been blessed to date different races and nationalities. The way I see it, it is up to each. If others don't like it then too bad. The world needs to get over it and move forward. Date who you like and when you fall in love, who cares what the world thinks.
Forever is right, real love knows no color, limits or boundaries therefore just surround yourself with people who are wise enough to know this.wine
I guess depending on which country you’re in it can often be the complete opposite. The secret is to not mind others and be yourself, I mean for both men and women. We’re all humans after all.
People should date whom ever they please, period!
The color of our skins are not important. We all bleed red, have the same major organs, we all have the same emotions, we all need to eat and drink to live. . . in my eyes we are all alike. So how could anyone look down or frown on it??
Ok OK!!! Here's the TRUTH!

Some fellas see it as an attack on the so-called large egos!!

They think "how can this woman be happy with a man who is inferiour to myself in the bed room"..

Guess some just need to wake up and GROW up! Simples!

LMAOoo!

Xx
At this time all of us should be able to move past the biased beliefs of our forefathers.
@ MrmiagiTm.....my thoughts exactly! Its all about their egos...smh. I dont care what people think so ladies and gentlemen the choice is yours because its your happiness that is essential. We're all one people, let's just get on with it!
Right on! @ Hankharlow....
Thanks all for voicing your individual opinions, it's much appreciated!
real love knows no color, limits or boundaries therefore just surround yourself
I totally agree Tasa......@ Seatraveler it is acceptable in a lot of places/countries, I know a lot of interracial couples (black men with white women) that don't encounter a lot of criticism or prejudices (if any). I think the problem comes back to the black community as the black men are trying assiduously to protect their egos and enjoy the best of both worlds.....sigh:
@ 10kohms....thanks but u need to stick with the subject of the blog!!! Lolzzzzzz
no matter who you date 5 bucks says that at least one person is gonna have a problem with it .
Awwww.....thanks Jana28, that's wot I'm talking about! Go with your personal preference and respect other people's choices. Personally I've decided to take a walk on the other side because I've had many bad experiences and I'm just going to do it a little differently (I don't have high expectations- that way I won't easily be disappointed). I'm a free spirited person and I refuse to be a prisoner of my own mind. @ Adamisk......I'm with u on that!thumbs up
@Mizkatie, I agree do what makes you happy.
I have dated only hispanic or white men and have chosen to stick with my own kind lol. I have had wonderful Godly black male friends and at the same time bad experiences with men in general . And it is true that culture/society frowns on anyone who crosses the invisible line. But races have been mixing for generations and it is not likely to stop.
Again do what is best and right for you, and be safe because society can be cruel and corrupt.
I agree with 10k..MAGNIFICENT !!!devil
Thanx Belly18 for adding ur views and I'll definitely keep safe hun.
@ Particolor....y am I not surprised?! My chest is not a second face so behave yourselves gentlemen!blushing thanks nevertheless..blushing
I understand how you feel. I have had several long term relationships with black women and find them wonderful, warm, loving and loyal. Currently seeking another. One can only laugh and ignore the disaproving looks we get from others. Just remember the problem is theirs and hate eats them up while we go on enjoying the best life has to offer. Give the nay sayers a big talk to the hand and get on with life, liberty and happiness. I am raising a 7 yr old son from a bi-racial relationship and he is the greatest blessing of my life. May you find what you deserve and be blessed wit a long happy loving future.professor handshake wine
Some positive words from u Ziggysdad2....cheers x
I live in an Army Base town and never c any of them treated differently....Probably see more black men with white women than I do black women with white men though....head banger head banger wave
@ Buffy327....that's exactly what I mentioned to Seatraveler previously...Thanx for sharing Buffy! handshake
Your comment about it being "frowned upon when Black women date White men and it's more acceptable for Black men to date White women" is purely dependent on the perspective of the individual. Some people don’t care whether a Black man dates a White woman or a Black woman dates a White man.
@ Lipsee....Ur entitled to ur opinion. It precludes my male counter parts, there's a popular saying which goes "he/she who feels it knows it".
I've never dated outside of my race so I'm thinking why not now? I love my black men don't get it twisted but let's put it this way, they've had their turn (made a huge mess) so let me give someone else a chance and see how it goes. U don't have to embrace my opinion but at least respect it.
MizKatie,,I do understand what you are saying ,I really do,and I am not waving any flags for black guys or Chinese or any particular race group,,for me its all about individuals,not skin colour,,class or any thing else,sure look at white guys,,just keep an open mind towards the rest,,,good luck
The problem does not lies in dating outside your race, it is the motive behind your choice. Are you dating iter-racially because you are fed up with black men, or are you because all men are created equal.
@ Nabii, its the latter......
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