WHY ? WHY ? WHY ?!!!

Im not easy nor hard to get ..
I do have a really good way to attract guys ..
They say im really kind and nice but i do have this tuff personality as well ! Im not an angel ! i do have mistakes and gaps like any other normal human !!!
But it's Like in the beginning they would treat me sooooo damn good and they would admit that they like me alot and sometimes they fall in love !!

but then !! They would just say ! Im not ready for a serious relationship , they sometimes leave after that or they would stay as friends !

OR !! like one of the guys i knew ! he left me cuz he is not ready to get marry !! and after like 3 months I heard that he got married !!

I sometimes doubt myself !! did i miss something !? was I that BAD !!!???? or is it that guys would like me so much that they prefer to run away !!
confused now that's strange !!!!!

I don't wanna go into any relationship now .. I need a break !!
all though ..inside ..all I need is someone ..Someone that is meant to be !!!
This is just makin me feel down !!!!

Gonna Sleep .. I don't wanna think !!!!!!!!! moping
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goodnight dear swan,,,tomorrow then ponder about whats wrong...sllep to get strenght,conversing bouquet yawn
u take care always dont feel bad its life people are difrrent difffrent concept have a great day
u take care always dont feel bad its life people are difrrent difffrent concept have a great day
sleep well, Swan.. hopefully, tomorrow u will have a bright day.. comfort
@MizKatie


men's shortcomings right? ... was wondering... would a kilometer do?

just a thought ... u know..
1OK, I'm going to break your legs, then you'll probly figure out your shortcomings! laugh rolling on the floor laughing
You're something else you know that??! laugh
which of my three legs do u wanna break? laugh


what would I be?
Just the two your walking on coz the other one has been broken/killed too many times! grin
I'm surprise its even still intact!!! confused rolling on the floor laughing That's a hard one to die!!! Talk about cats having nine lives....laugh
I know... it takes faith to believe what I claim above.... and quite a lot of it gotta say ...


moping moping moping
I've always had a three month rule.I've never had problems with that sort of thing.Very few players are willing to sit around and wait for three months.

We would like to believe that it is an equal world out there for women,but it's not.Women still get branded with the Scarlett "S" if you sleep with a guy too soon or if you have had too many partners.


Don't let a guy get the goodies too soon and things will go smoother.
@MizKatie


You think that I'm good fun and you haven't yet experienced me.... If u had to, you wouldn't have any trace of doubt left! ... mark my words!



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thanks for the compliment honey ... you're super kind.

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@Swan87 - It's not easy. People do things for reasons we don't understand. Let them do what they believe is right for them and you do what you believe is right for you.

From your profile...
"Well , There is no need for me to explain what i need from you you'll know it with time ;)"

It appears that you're joking, at least a little --- ";)" at the end.

People want to be comfortable in a relationship. They need to know that you want them there. They need to know that you think positive thoughts about them. You don't need to constantly praise them but you need to tell them that you appreciate them... encourage them to be good to you and to others. Help them bring out their best and they will appreciate you for it. (they should be like this with you as well)

If you want to meet someone here on CS, I'd suggest that you consider updating your profile to say something about who you're looking for ... "Someone responsible, friendly, fun" ... even if in very general terms I would think it would be better than giving the impression that you don't know what you want ... or that you want to just let them know later.

And ... don't be in a hurry ... it's more important to figure out what you really want (character traits) in someone you will be with.

Good luck!
I don't think for a minute its anything you are doing, you unfortunately have been unlucky so far and wound up with those who are not deserving of you.
That was a great read...

"I don't wanna go into any relationship now .. I need a break !!
all though ..inside ..all I need is someone ..Someone that is meant to be"

I am in the same boat. At least you are not alone, miss.. It happens to all of us, really.. I would read this great book Men Are From Mars, Women From Venus.. Simple mistakes kill relationships. I wish I had paid more attention to this..

But then again, everything happens for a reason. Don't worry, it will happen when you least expect it. Beautiful pictures by the way..

- C
Hey swan , your still young and got the rest of your life to live for , your beautiful and any man would and should wabt you , be yourself and dont let this get you down
Nice Movie!popcorn lightbulb tip hat
@sweetsad flower
I don't say I love you to men anymore.....I just punch em in the arm and say something like "hey, you're alright"grin drinking
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