RUDE PEOPLE
When I send a flower or mail to a person, I understand that what I have to offer may not be what that person is seeking or I may not be physically attractive to the people whom I have contacted however I think it is rude if the people I have contacted do not reply even if it is just to say a thank you for reading their profile. Is this perception old fashioned or do other people feel the same.Like wise I have experienced several situations where I have been writing to people for a period of time then they stop writing, usually after a week or so I send a note to say thank you and goodbye, every time I do this the person replies saying they wish to continue corresponding then never send another mail. I find it most disagreeable to be left “hanging” waiting for a persons reply
Comments (27)
I understand you but we all here have no rules to behave, we behave similar, probably, to real life.
Have a nice day
I think we've all experienced people chatting then disappearing and cutting off contact, if that's the case then they never were interested in the first place.
Don't worry too much, there are all types on these sites, you just need to take the good with the bad..... some time someone special may turn up, never give up!
All the best
I'm sure it's warmer were you are though!
But, some people just aren't courteous.
Unfortunately, this blog isn't going to change that.
I suggest letting it go and moving on to the next person.
Good luck with your search
About the second situation I am familiar with that type. They seem to be interested and then stop writing. Most likely the found someone else. Nothing you can do about that either. Think it wasn't meant to be with that person.
Alternatively, one could write, "Are you outta ya friggin' mind ? You'd have a better chance of finding an Obama supporter in the Palin household."
I am the soulmate they have searched their whole life for.
Nowadays we are mesmerized by the opportunities and freedom the net communication gives. So often we don't feel responsible about our communication with other people. Most of us don't respect any rules of kindness. I think a new code of communication in the net is needed! Of course it should be "created" spontaneously by people who want to put some elementary rules in this mess...
And don't forget a lot of women here on this site get 40/50 messages per day.
I personally usually only reply on people who seriously take the time to get to know you. A single flower or just a 1 word message saying 'hello' sounds pretty uninterested and lame to me.
And also many people have issues and lives that 'prevents' them from further contacting. They got a relationship in the meantime, personal problems or suddenly a very busy schedule and so on..
Don't take it personally please :) It got usually nothing to do with you as a person.
Azull... Thank you for your comments nice to read you have found some great people on this site hope it works out for you.
If people cant handle rejection, then they should not be on these kind of sites..as its impossible for everyone to like you..