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The Case of the Ex...

Many moons ago my ex boyfriend and I ended our 15 year relationship due to his new found love. I was devestated, lost, confused etc... 2 years later I've found myself in a better place, one which I feel content with.
Recently, I received an email from him inquiring why I dislike him so much? He continued on to ask why I view him as some type of horrible person. I contemplated responding but several days later sent a brief response stating I did not view him negatively. Well, apparently my answer was not sufficient for him and he continued to pry trying to understand why I felt "negatively" about him.
The brutual reality is he cheated on me. I had the pleasure of finding out from his girlfriend who took pleasure in posting many picutres and videos of them frolocking around town. Though it killed me inside, I moved on with my life.
Why now does he decide to care about how I feel? confused
Any ideas? Advice?
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Jana28
Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria
Jun 1, 2011●1,803 Comments
#1
Maybe he has some problems and thinks it is some "punishment" because he was bad with you.. So he needs to be sure you have forgiven him confused
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#2
Perhaps, it's rather confusing to me.
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Jana28
Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria
Jun 1, 2011●1,803 Comments
#3
Who cares anyway... wink
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#4
LOL! I should view it that way. applause
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Jana28
Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria
Jun 1, 2011●1,803 Comments
#5
Of course... He s a past and let him stay there laugh hug comfort
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#6
yay

Def should.
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Mikenj3
Mikenj3●Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain
Jun 1, 2011●1 Blogs●7 Comments
#7
have u been in touch though this 2 year period this could be his way of just communicating again
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
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handshake Within the past year we've interacted briefly. He apologized for his actions and I forgave him. I even assisted him with a family issue to show I've moved past whatever hurt he may have caused. However, I never reconciled as he may have desired. Funny thing, I think the machismo side of him wanted me to court him and pretend as if nothing ever happened. I'm sorry but though I love him, I'm not in love with him. I become frustrated with myself for allowing him to bother me in this way. I guess he was successful! lol frustrated
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
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Hi Mike,
But why not just write ,"hello, how have you been?" rather than "why do you hate me?" Maybe he's just bored. lol barf
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Mikenj3
Mikenj3●Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain
Jun 1, 2011●1 Blogs●7 Comments
#10
Hiya :)

males are an odd species maybe rumours are going round,u have the same circle of friends?
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morgenulv
morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway
Jun 1, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments
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Isa, have u thought about the option of cutting him completly out of your life? I mean if that could be good for u.
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#12
Yes, we do share some friends. That could be a possibility.
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
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Hi Morg,
Yes, def think it would be a wise idea. The only contact we've had in the last 11 months is through email. I think it's time to close my account. help
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Mikenj3
Mikenj3●Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain
Jun 1, 2011●1 Blogs●7 Comments
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lol don't have to close your account,just be truthful with him,what does he expect from you,he was unfaithful and you were right to be angry with him,even though time has gone by,you have nothing to prove to him anymore,and if u wouldn't like contact,you should just tell him so.
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
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Mike,
My last email response I informed him that I'm not willing to relive our past and to please leave me alone. Let's hope this does happen. If not I guess bye bye email.

dancing
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 1, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#16
Thanks Swiss! That's def good advice. I appreciate it. peace
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particolor
particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia
Jun 1, 2011●9,376 Comments
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Isa...15 years ay!!!Sue him for Long Service Leave. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin bouquet
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Frankinstien
Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico
Jun 1, 2011●1,830 Comments
#18
Isabella, I don't know what to say about your ex boyfriend , but you look amazingly like a younger Elizabeth Talor ! . . . .wow
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Jun 2, 2011●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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That's what I thought, frank. A real Liz lookalike!!! Uncanny. wow
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Frankinstien
Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico
Jun 2, 2011●1,830 Comments
#20
Calm, A little bit of off-beat humor perhaps . I actually met her years ago . She was married to John Warnner at the time . They had a place up in Middleburg Va. He was not only my senator ( not at the time ) but my wife at the time was raising Shelties . So was he . There was family connections also . The striking thing about her was her eyes . They where an unusual and beautiful off blue color . She also had thick lashes ( could have been the makeup ) that excentuated them . I'm not one who gets enammored by celebrity but I thought she was rather striking .
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Jun 2, 2011●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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yes, her eyes were her most striking feature - sometimes they were a blue purple - almost violet color. :)
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Frankinstien
Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico
Jun 2, 2011●1,830 Comments
#22
Calm, Yes they where intreaging . Someone else I met that had striking eyes was Paul Neuman . In the mid to late seventies he was racing in SCCA . He was also friends with Bob Tulius of Groupe 44 . Neuman bought his old D production Triumph T R 5 a . Ok, you don't want to hear about the cars ( yes typical male ), anyway they where realy sky blue . Some one else who had steel blue eyes was Walter ( you wouldn't know him ).he was dating Mary's ( my old dance partner ) mother at the time . my parents where Wid Western blue eyed Krouts and every one in the family inherated them . I guess that's why I notice them .
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Isabella88
Isabella88OP●Los Angeles, California USA
Jun 2, 2011●4 Blogs●38 Comments
#23
Elizabeth Taylor was a beauty! :) Everyone, thank you so much for the advice and feedback. I needed to read your words to snap back into reality and not fall victim of being guilted for his mistakes...hug
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