vanity

all thouse who think looks are every thing should take a long look at there sould or pull there heads out of there backsides i know many apeople who dont show pics on here cause of problems with there looks i for example dont like people looking at me cause of an acsedent i had when i was a kid so dont judge people cause they dont show pics.
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@ lonly, it is not like that, as for me I don't like taking photos not to mention having one in my profile! I am a shy person, but since I want to have some good friends and start dating again I thought I should do so, it is nice to know how the person you are talking to looks like .. no body will judge the way you look, be brave and upload your photo and you will feel good afterwards cool
Sorry to hear about your accident. Sure, looks aren't everything but some people want/need both the inner and outer beauty. There are two types of chemistry in my opinion, physical and mental. Greedy folk like me want them both .....grin
For me it matters not how you look or what you do, but what lies beneath. Not many people judge others this way I agree. It all seems to be about how you look, what you do, and if you have children to care for. If you don't pass this criterion then you are passed over. It is nice to hear from someone who apparently looks deeper for a soul. peace
It seems that we get programmed for this in some ways.
When you lok at a dating site, any dating site, what do you see?
They hire models for the pics and try to con everyone into thinking that that's what you'll get.
It leads one on to thinking that the average person on a site looks like that when we actually just look like ourselves.
Since the web truly got worldwide, we see more and more of this and, I think it feeds into our not accepting people who really look like the real people you see around town.

This is one of the few "dating/singles" sites which actually has legitimate discussions about any of this.
Most of these sites just feed you BS.

Hang in there, vanity.
Those of us who like to come to a site like this know better and realize what's more real than those other sites.
This place isn't perfect butt, it's a lot better than the flashy, looks places.
Just keep talking and, you'll feel better.
Some photos are just not what they seem anyway.... Maybe we should all go without a photo for a day and call it 'blank day' laugh
Fear nothing, let your internal beauty shine.
thanks all for the help its nice to know there is still good people out there.
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