Is there anyway to get an ex out of your head?
Recently split from me gf, we were 4 yrs together and things were not right for along time so we ended t but I think about her all the time and need to stop because I'm not eating or sleeping because I totally fell in love but now I want to move on with my life and find the woman who's right for me so hw can I move on?I've heard the old cleshes find a new girl, take time out, etc but I need a solution now that works immediately
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Really wanna move on with ur life.......just stop thinking abt her, specially when alone. engage ur mind smwhere else. It'll be difficult in the begining , no doubt, but it'll really work.
Otherwise, do things that you like doing and stop feeling sorry for yourself (that helps - from experience)!
There's no quick fix I'm afraid. But meeting someone else, even going on an odd date does help. Other than that, try an find something that'll take up your time. Thanks to my ex, I'm now fit from joining the gym and I've re-decorated the house and the garden's never looked better anything to take my mind off him!
Eventually, the pain gets less and less, there really is no quick fix - sorry
What helped me was to spend time with friends, engage in my favorite hobbies, exercise.... When those pesky thoughts would emerge in my head I'd focus on the negative rather than dwell on the positives...
I know she never loved me and dealing with that is hard. I know she deserves alot better than me and hopefully I can find what I'm looking for. Hopefully tonite is good to me I lack charisma and charm but I can dance lol
Thanks ppl x
Good luck!
its just like as if she had died , good things take time to get over , and in time ,women around you will know , you are single again and as long as you dont go on and on about your ex , you will get laid again and again til you are ready to be with someone again
or get a yacht and go sailing
I still think about him & even cry
I keep busy but things keep reminding me of him & the thing is eventually you'll think less & less of her & some women will make you forget...in a good way.
Time heals...some of us take lomger than others. When you love someone you never forget sometimes its something about them.
Love hurts but it also feels good at the same time...hurt as in heartbreak. Love will find you & you'll be ready...with arms wide open to embrace a new love.
You know that you broke it off for a reason,many reasons in fact. Whenever you find yourself missing her just mentally list the various reasons that led to you parting ways. There are good memories of course and you should not banish those but remind yourself that the good times were not enough to prevent you from going your separate ways. You still love her and of course you do; she probably still cares tonnes about you too. Having reminded yourself of why you are not good for each other wish her lots of happiness and send her loads of love and move on to other thoughts or better still do something fun.
What we really really miss most when we break up is the sense of companionship - we miss our partner in crime so to speak. Take this opportunity to fill in that gap by reinforcing family ties and spending more time with friends and colleagues. Engage in social events and try some volunteering too.
You will be fine, just give yourself some time..
Have a support network of people you trust and can turn to. People who will listen and be non-judgmental.
Time will heal all wounds.
Good Luck.