Houdini

Whats up with guys in here,they send u mail back and forth and then they disappear,confused if ther is no interest why waste my time,If no interest at all,dont send me mail,if there is,mail away...simple eh?dunno peace teddybear
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I thought only girls do that mumbling
Maybe they do,but i dontsigh sad flower
I still kept saying,at least you recieved emails...I don't...doh
sorry to hear dat bungalow but mayb it would help if u had a picture of urself up,comfort
Hey bungallow, i understand how it feels handshake And guess what? you will get an email out of the blues, you make a reply and then thats it. Nothing happens after that. Like mrsdamienlewis says.
Kerry,Ireland,my profile is full of photos...if you want you can check my profile for yourself...I cannot post anymore pics,is full already.
Hey Michigan,thanks for your support...cheers
Any time head banger
hello mrsdamien,you are not alone many women of cs experience that kindscold dont worry maybe they just passing throughlaugh peace
thanks all,u are right belle,guess i can see the types they are so they are not worth knowing or putting time into...Its nice to chat with someone ,but look at it like this guys,if ur having a conversation with a guy even on a date and he gets up and leaves,isnt this not the same....i was reared with manners..come on...frustrated
Sometimes this happens as it takes a couple of mails going backwards and forwards to judge the character of the person with whom you are corresponding. If all of a sudden the mail stops it is usually because the person feels they have nothing in common with you or your character does not suit them. Unfortunately they do not have the courage to say so or the good manners to thank you for the time you have spent writing to them
A few days ago I had an e mail from a guy. Seemed nice enough. Then he wanted to go onto hotmail or yahoo to chat. I sent an e mail back saying that I would prefer to chat on this site for a while until it felt right. I haven't heard from him since. Just one of those things. I reply to all mail even if it's only to thank them for their interest. For me it is just courtesy as they've been nice enough to mail in the first place.
wave Hi Missdamianlewis..The men who do this are either "players" or are doing what alot of people do and are chatting to many folks, getting to know them and then deciding who they want to meet and then they stop contacting everyone else and focus on the "one" they chose.

I would suggest to stop taking everyone who contacts you so seriously, date, have fun and play the field untill "one" special guy comes along and you both are on the same page as to wanting a full committment..

Words online are easy to use and men and women both are capable of playing games...Just have fun, dont let the small stuff upset you..
If a girl wants a guy to show interest they should be responsive to his e mails. When a guy lists his hobbies a girl should respond with questions and information on her hobbies too. e mails are the bloodstream of this website. When a guy makes an effort to be informative and the girl responds with three words; where is the interest? Many girls want to chat but not to write. Sincere girls represent about 5% of the total girls out there.
same goes for the guys,5% or less.,i disagree,i respond to everyone,and dont take them seriously at all,but after a few mails,u give a little part of youself away and then they disappear,They are defo playing games and its not nice@all...but im moving on...teddybear
maybe you need some new glasses , to see better with



teddybear
aww i no. same here. went as far as 2 dates with a guy seemed 2 go gr8 then nothing. no calls no mails etc... confusiondoh wonder what some people are doin here at all. is it just 2 mess with ur head
Have experienced the exact same thing, it's a big waste of time and effort. After a few months on this site I'm beginning to think that most of the girls here are time wasters. The strangest thing is when girls contact you first, but then don't write back after. Do they just mail random profiles to see who mails back or what, looking for some kind of ego boost?

Am trying to think of a polite thing to write at the bottom of my profile to stop these people messaging me, any suggestions???wave
It's like digging for gold. You have to shift a ton of mud to find 1 gram of the good stuff. And sometimes there isn't any gold at all.
It's happened to me so many times, but I don't stress it.

I just keep it moving.
women do it too. happens alot.
Swissblueeyes has the answer to your question.
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