TO BE OR NOT TO BE
Just want to be friends with some men, have fun, maybe become intimate. The problem is, that when I find a man I want to befriend, he doesn't respond much at all. Then there are men I wouldn't normally want to be good friends with, and they come after me. Or they are controling and want permanent committment; I do not. That seems to have been the problem as far as I can remember. What do I do?
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"Lots of women are still waiting in line not just you!" this statement makes me so proud, really, in the same time, sounds so hilarious!
You be true to yourself be strong and don't allow anyone to treat you in any way you don't want to be treated.
Look a little deeper into people also, you may already know the one you want you just haven't seen it.
Sounds like you're looking for that loving feeling first but it doesn't always work that way. Sometimes those feelings fade fast and you find yourself in a bad relationship. But if you find someone you're only comfortable with that love may grow into something much much more.
Good luck either way.
You did not clarify though as to the kinds of personality that you 'wouldn't normally want to be good friends with' nor did you suggest why 'they' [in particular] were more likely to pursue you than other men would?
It should be relatively easy for you to avoid any man who is 'a controlling persona' and/or whom desires 'a committed relationship' with you, because basing this on your earlier experiences of interacting with such people, you should be able to spot them coming at you from a mile away!
And .. since you clearly stated that you did not want or need a committment from men in general, simply say so in your profile, in any way that cannot be misunderstood or misinterpreted.
Viola!