I dont think i can do this....
I have been talking to some of the sweetest guys...from the site n near home but I can't let my damn guard down enough to even see them as anything other than liars. They call me sweetie, babe, my queen... They buy me things and take me places but yet I am having the hardest time trying to love any of them! They are all aware I talk to other guys n everything but I don't know tht they should just be ok with it. What happened to the guys that used to fight for you. Where's. My kinnicky- ya know! I mean I'm not lookin for a knight in shining armor but at least the knight! Hell what would I even be able to do with a knight? I'm so damaged n broken n scarred I don't know if I would be good for anyone. Wow!!!! Did I just say that?I guess what I'm tryin to say is that I've been hurt so many times by the guys in my life that profess their love for me that I don't think I will EVER believe any of them.
Any suggestions? Good ones, not the you should just b yourself bs or the give him a shot shit! Real advice!
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What to do with a "Knight in Shining Armor"?
Set him up somewhere (street corner, etc, etc), and charge admission to view & observe!
Letting your guard down...sorry to say, that is just one of the expenses of love! (been there done that)
I feel that you may have to work on trust and forgiveness first, before throwing the heart into the mix.
“There is no love without forgiveness,
and there is no forgiveness without love.”
Wishing you well, in your dilemma...and success in your goals.
-John-
You have two ways:
1) pick one man you like the most and see if it can work out
2) play with all of them and meet all of them and then choose
Both ways have its good and bad sides. If you pick the first way, you might be tricked and deceived again and left alone with nothing. If you pick the second, you'll probably feel bad about yourself, because you wouldn't like to be 'one of many' either. It's not an easy choice. :)
Since you're writing to men close to you and seriously looking for a relationship, I think the best way is to meet all those men as soon as possible in real life and then choose. If they avoid meeting you or if you meet them and don't like them - you'll know where's your stand. :)
I know it's great to get a lot of attention online and compliments, sweet words and promises, but that usually doesn't mean anything. That's just fun for most men. Don't have great expectations and you'll not get disappointed a lot later. :)