I dont think i can do this....
I have been talking to some of the sweetest guys...from the site n near home but I can't let my damn guard down enough to even see them as anything other than liars. They call me sweetie, babe, my queen... They buy me things and take me places but yet I am having the hardest time trying to love any of them! They are all aware I talk to other guys n everything but I don't know tht they should just be ok with it. What happened to the guys that used to fight for you. Where's. My kinnicky- ya know! I mean I'm not lookin for a knight in shining armor but at least the knight! Hell what would I even be able to do with a knight? I'm so damaged n broken n scarred I don't know if I would be good for anyone. Wow!!!! Did I just say that?I guess what I'm tryin to say is that I've been hurt so many times by the guys in my life that profess their love for me that I don't think I will EVER believe any of them.
Any suggestions? Good ones, not the you should just b yourself bs or the give him a shot shit! Real advice!
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I bet u missed the sweetest of 'em all ...
Evil is every where these days LookinFurLuv
Thats because they don't "need" us anymore...just repeating what they said
Dear, you said that the men all aware that you talk to other guy and everything. I guess, they think you are not serious and want to have fun with them all and because of that, the men only want to have fun with you also and not taking the "relationship" too serious.
Many advice I heard that, man need to feel and know that we like him only. Yes, definitely he needs to know that he has many rivals to make he keeps the adrenaline to fighting and get you. But, if he feels that you also like many men, he will not take you too serious.
Just my opinion.
Good luck! I hope you find your knight soon. You deserve a good one.
Summer
It is only my opinion, but like women, men do not want to have to fight for anyone. Men are looking for the same thing that many women look for, a faithful partner. Again, only my thoughts but how can a man see you as faithful if they have to take a number and stand in que for your attention. Sometimes when we are so busy going here and there, we do not take the time to get to know anyone, love can only come after you get to know a person. It is apparant that you are popular, that is a good thing. If I were in your position I would narrow the list down to one person. Concentrate on that person and if they prove not to be "the one" then move on. You are young, pretty, witty, and nice....I have faith that there is a good man just waiting for you.
1) I dont mind competition, thay shouldent either, so no its ok thay still talk to you though u speak with several.
2) forget about damage and work on letting the guard down.
Try use your head more, and be more:
-humerous
-witty
-"smart"
-intrested in his things and life and person
-sweet
3) expect that most to "fall off" and u'll be left with a core.
thats normal.
Btw, i found u abit sweet and funny that night u drank to 9am and wanted a maaaan
luck good HONNNEEEYYYYY
I agree about what you said. I'm also impressed with Summaertan, that she is still young but is a thoughtful person. ... good for u
Hamed
I'm not here to hit on you but jjust to give you another perspective at your situation.
After being married for over ten years, raising a family and all of the above, i was treated like i was the devil him self for wanting happynes and leaving my marriage, she used my child against me the works. I then dated someone after that which really gave my ex wife a run for her money but i am still optimistic that love is still out there because it's jist not fair for me to treat beautiful and really good Hearted ladies bad because of my past.
I have recently been made aware of this by the most beautiful and kind hearted woman Whom i met on this site so i know That the rubbish women out there are still there but they make up a very small persentage of the population or we all might aswell just eneded now.
Well hope i gave you some insight on the other side. Keep smiling.
What to do with a "Knight in Shining Armor"?
Set him up somewhere (street corner, etc, etc), and charge admission to view & observe!
Letting your guard down...sorry to say, that is just one of the expenses of love! (been there done that)
I feel that you may have to work on trust and forgiveness first, before throwing the heart into the mix.
“There is no love without forgiveness,
and there is no forgiveness without love.”
Wishing you well, in your dilemma...and success in your goals.
-John-
I really want to help You.And I will write You my real ideas.
The boys who you met from website target commonly to handle You.That is it.Therefore Never wait so much good relations from the boys who you met from Web. Ofcourse there can be some exceptions Sometimes You can find a real guy.But this is like a random Lottery result.So as you understand from my this example The find real love from a Website is really low in possibility but not Impossible.
Finally I advise You to make Exams to every boy who you meet from anywhere with any reasons.Just like at school.Do You remember your School years.Although You take the Courses in school.But this is not enough to pass to your current class to a higher class.You must pass from Exams at end of the Terms ( Fall , Spring and sometimes Summer School )in orde to pass your class to the upper-higher Class in School.
So what did your School years teach You? The School teach You to be selective and teaches the life to You that Life is a course but the persons must pass the neccessary exams so as to enter to your life.Okay do you understand me? Apply my ideas.You are going to be Happy.Good Luck.Best Regards to You.