jealous

uh...before I forgot, i wanna share my funny experienced and it happened this evening.

Well..this evening I visited my friend. She's my class mate when we were in junior high. It's Eid Mubarrak Holiday, so I still have chance to visit her.

At first, we had a very very nice conversation, untiiiilll.... her husband smiled at me. And I smiled back at him.

After that, her face looks different. She looks don't wanna talk with me anymore. I didn't know what's happening her.
I felt uncomfortable. Finally I got back home. Actually I still wanna have chit chat with her.

And then... she texted me, she said, " Did u enjoy my husband's smile ? "

Oh My God...!!!!!!! She's pretty, she's clever, i meant... every man wants her. She looks like a model. And she's jealous wit me? crying

Then, I told my sister who knows her. My sister just laughed. She said, her husband had an affair with her friend few years ago and since then, she's jealous wit every woman. My God.. that was a friendly smile and means nothing...

geeezzz....
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Narnia, you did not anything wrong! And actually your friend is not angry with you but with her husband... It is awful that she is so traumatized! So don't be mad with her, poor Lady! hug bouquet
Hey Lana...
nooo, I dont mat at her.. I was shock actually. I thought her marriage is perfect and i dont know her husband well.

I think, i need times to visit her again.
ooppps I meant Jana.... soorrryy
@narnia so did u really enjoy the smile..!

the girl code is 'u don't flirt wid ur gf 's man....seriously....get ur own man....cheers cheers
Summer...

i didnt enjoy his smile. I never want to flit wit somebody's husband. Not a chance.

Kindly read my blog carefully. If u smile at me, how do you feel if I dont smile back at you? I smiled back at him just for being polite. I dont know her husband personally.

And, my friend is jealous with every woman. Not only me.
Narnia, this is part of the experiences one gain towards adulthood. U see one really dosent go from kid to adult til in your 30's.

You learned sth new now. For me i think its strange your sister diden't tell you this before.

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@Narnia..,,nothing personal...I know wat u mean...just saying tread carefully there cos if infidelity history..,, cheerscheers
@ Srama , yeah I know. This case wont stop me to have friendship with her. She's my friend more than 15 years but she never told me about her marriage. I really dont know about her husband's attitude.

@ Jana, hahahha dont be.. I look like a devil if I got mad.

thanks ladies
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@ summerlove , welll...glad u understand... cheersss...hug

@ morgen, my sister lives very far away from me and she thought I already knew about my friend's husband.
And I didnt ask either how she knew about it.
Omg. lol. cheers purple heart
From the next time ask everyone to get ur smile on fb or cs."never deal directly in the real world".laugh laughjust kidding.
hey narnia..i had experience like that before,smiling back at my boss husband,later on i found out she's jealous to me?!geezz!it only proves that insecurity is included in a womans life in every circumstances or situation!crazy but its true!peace peace bouquet
well have you not seen yourself latly,your very attractive or pretty,whichever you perfer.anyways jim has a great point,you were the lighting rod.comfort
help your friend to get out of this situation other wise it will affect her mental health as a friend you should do that.......
Narnia, that situation must feel not comfortable. Usually in common condition, smiling to and back in our tradition is not a matter and it's actually a sign of welcoming and hospitality. But because of the past experience, your friend keep protective. I can understand about her feeling but this seems not right.

She replied your message seems like she still would like to talk even in a "sinis" sentence. Did you reply her message?

Don't talk anything with her in these days..let her forget a little and begin to share with her again if you think it's the moment. She seems lose confidence. Try to share something to keep her boost up her confidence.

One more thing, maybe later consider to not visit her if her husband at home {smile}

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Summer
Hi! Narnia the best thing you can do is be there for your friend but only if she wants you around so tread carefully as regarding your friends problems lets hope she sorts them out sounds like he is a sleeze. Maybe talk to her on the phone rather than go around to her place or meet her for lunch just the two of you and have a heart to heart chat hope it works out for you and your friend. comfort hug
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