Someone that you like

If you really like someone on cs would you let him know what do you really feel about him or you just keep it quite conversing help uh oh
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Thank you guys , really appreciate that i will tell him soon !! grin grin
Jana, I'm so tired of insecure men. blues I'm tired of having to take care of every word and every move, of having to 'build someone's ego' every day, of tolerating all those terrible behaviour insecure people always have... blues I just can't do that any more! blues So, if he's too insecure to approach me - maybe it's better that way. smile

Btw, on dating sites, men sometimes like women, but don't approach them because of the distance. Telling him that you like him if you're on different sides of the world and he wants someone within 50 km far from him is pretty useless, I think.
jim, i dont know what older women your talking about, but i get mail and offers almost every day and 99% of the time i never do the contact first.

it might be 2011 but tons of men still love the chase...
But, you're a young gal. wink
I'm not suggesting that men don't chase women.
That was not what I was trying to say.
What I am saying, is that younger women are MUCH
more forward and aggressive than older women nowadays.
I've been approached and hit on in person by far more
women in their 20's in the past year than I have by
older women. If this is happening for me, I am
sure it is even more so for younger guys.
It seems that todays younger women are not settling
for those who hit on them. They are taking a much
more active role.
Aeterna, I agree with every word of yours. And once you have built up his ego, he goes to enjoy it with another woman and you stay alone all drained and with your ego been lost! wink laugh
Aeterna, I agree with every word of yours. And once you have built up his ego, he goes to enjoy it with another woman and you stay alone all drained and with your ego been lost! wink laugh
That's completely true, Jim. And that makes men even more lazy and apathetic and less and less manly...
Just saying "hi" should be enough for a pretty and nice girl like yourself...just beware of the guys who are not men and would prefer to be treated like a woman. Keep in mind they're not worth your time.beer
There's SOME truth to what you said Swiss.
I know from experience that I much more enjoy
battling for a win with a good team in a close game, than whomping the other team 20 to 2.
Indeed, in the latter type games I often lobby to have the coach put someone else in for me so they can get playing time.
This even happened last Saturday.
Unfortunately, I can't seem to get the coach to do that. dunno

However, this really doesn't apply to dating.
I would much prefer a relationship that feels
right and flows nicely without a lot of work, or forcing it, rather than something that I have to work hard to get and maintain.
I prefer a nice easy good mesh & fit, a fun, cooperative, loyal woman who just feels right when I'm with her. I've asked women out and had women ask me out.
Both are quite acceptable from my perspective and experience. peace
Aeterna, I can understand why you are saying this.
You've grown up in an age when this was true.
However, as I've said previously, times have changed.
You are now competing with another crop of younger women
who do not feel this way and are confident enough to go
after what they want. You may not like it, but that is
the way it is. peace
Every time I told someone something in that way, it blew up in one way or another and usually end up slaying a friendship. Be careful and be sure before saying anything.
Ah go for it! It's refreshing.
@Still : I know , i will make sure that first grin Thanks for the encouragement wine cheers
@Witnail : Refreshing ehhh ? laugh Thanks for the comment tho wine
@ Swiss : I'm with you.

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men will.why not women/write?
Manroe - I am shy like you, so I understand. I have learned the hard way from years of experience to keep my mouth shut when I like someone, UNLESS they approach me first. I'm a fast learner. I will occasionally comment to a woman if she's wearing pretty earrings or bracelets, a flower in the hair, a cute outfit she's wearing, etc., but that's about as far as I go if she hasn't approached me first. Two of the three women I especially like on here are way younger than me (seems to be my specialty), and one, judging by her flirting, must like someone else.

Leo - If a woman said she liked me, she's already on her way to my heart.

Jim - Doggone it, where are these aggresive women you speak of? I must be living in the wrong city!! And don't even think about the bar scene, because I hate the bar scene...too much of a meat market, for one thing, plus I'm not a drinker.

Still of the Night - Right on!

Virgo - Reminds me of a saying I invented: "I see", said the blind man to the deaf man. "I hear not", said the deaf man to the blind man.
I told you, didn't I?confused
@ Hugger : Why you not tell her ? perharps she likes you too but very shy to telling the truth wine hug




@Cherrygc : Why i didn't accept that note rolling on the floor laughing doh
But it's a dating site, you're supposed to message people you like. Just go for it!
i believe you should always speak your heart...let the pieces fall where they may....otherwise, you may never know...but then again, i know about being shy...believe it or not, i'm shy too...blushing laugh
@ JLW - since when you are shy person doh rolling on the floor laughing
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