he is ready now?
i have been talkin to this guy for a lil while , wel he told me he wasnt ready to commit to anyone yet cause he has alot on his mind and his ex cheatd on him . he was married to her. he says he dnt want to be hurt no more. wel he likes me and everythin but i stoppd talkin to him after he told me this, jus cause i wantd to give him space to deal with whatever he was goin threw. i realy thought i would not hear from him again. tonight he sends me a msg askin me why i stoppd talkin to him. he says he is ready now to open up to me. it has only been like a week since i stoppd talkin to him. anyway i was wonderin if u think he is worried he was gona lose a great girl? (me) wel it jus came across that way to me cause its only been like a week it jus seems like he got ready real quick ya knw.i notice the more i push a guy or bug him bout his feelins the more he resists so i did the oposite in this case cause i realy do like this guy alot, it seems that it is goin in my favor?
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Maybe he is dealing with alot of things on his mind, Men like even myself included, find it hard sometimes on the first establishment point about how we share and open our feelings!
If he is the one for you, give him a chance to express these feelings but then at the same time trying giving him some space, or alternatively you could talk to him asking him if he is okay, maybe he will start expressing himself.
If he is a CS'r you could send him flowers and a message, who knows it might work
I don't know what is the meaning when a man likes a woman but he wasn't ready to commit and still have lots of baggage from his past story. I don't mean to make you down, dear, or share negative feeling here, but just make sure he doesn't take you for granted for rebound. Now he loses his ex and need someone to love him.
See what happened next. Keep doing your things and enjoy your life. Don't give anything more than friendship before he is ready for it.
Take care and good luck!
Summer