Who, What and How?...
...so what ended your last relationship, or who ended your last relationship that made you join CS?
Do you have regrets that your relationship came to an end and would you take back the person for hurting and leaving you?
And what would you change about yourself for the next hopeful person who might be interested in you?
Comments (20)
The last one,
Great girl, very funny, super attitude, nice body and mind, into mostly the same things. We were dating for about a month when she dropped the "L" word, which was ok cuz I had similar feelings. Then one day I said the "L" word to her, when I was leaving, and she didn't! I asked her why and she said "cuz I have to feel it, at the moment."
I didn't realize women can just turn that off whenever they want apparently. So I left and never went back.
Broke up with her about 3 days later or she broke up with me, couldn't really tell just something had changed and it no longer felt right.
Cheers to getting the hell out when the time is right!
I did it of my own free will.
No, I would not take her back.
I ended the relationsship.
I got tried of the constance aguing, the past being drag up, a partner that was hardly home, a partner that wouldn't help out, just to name a few...both of us were at fault for one or the other.
I joined Cs to see what online dating was like, can one actualy get a women from the internet? still finding out about this...
Regret..hmmm...no, for the health it was better to spilt up, I recon, it was very life draining in the end, something like flat battery feeling. Take them back...well we done that all though the relationship, take each other back, until we reached the end, so yes in that sence, no now days.
I would change nothing, cause I had it right before.
NEXTED COMMENT...
I have no regrets for ending either, other than how hard it can be on children of course. I try not to look back and always move forward. I'm the type that when I make a decision, I don't second guess it and move on.
Change about myself? I would probably say that I have become one to more lay it all on the table up front so there are no lingering questions. I am who I am, take me the way I am or move on. My opinion only of course!
.. but every cloud has a silver lining!
you dont have to tell us,aint that right superman
I only reveal that to special people, I can't have everyone knowing the truth.
Your too sweet Itchy!
First off, I wouldn't change anything. That is what helped ruin my past relationships. Who can know what the other really wants?
And how can we know that they will appreciate our accomidating what we think they want. Or how can we remain ourselves after years of roll playing.
As you can see, I have a strong opinion about changing for love.
Also, you have a good idea why my past relationships didn't work out.
I can't wait to meet a man who is really into ME. I guess that's why i am brutally honest about myself.
Good luck Sugar
Lookylou
Couldn't agree more. We should not have to change who we are!
Well, it was a bored long difficult story about my last relationship. I did regret it but at that time I was so innocent and unexperience. I learned from that and I guess that was good that I and him ended it. I feel good with who I am now and don't want to stay in the past too long
I have a principle in my love life that I won't ever back for my ex. Yes, I forgive him. I guess that is the peaceful thing I can do for myself. I learned much and this time I will be better. I promise myself.
Summer
No, I wouldn't have him back. He is too old for me, now.
What would I change?
My regret...I didn't get to tell him that I love him. Maybe that's why I haven't seen him again. I didn't get a chance to say it. You see that was the first time I guy told me that he loves me. It took ahile to let it sink in. I didn't see it coming & I took it hard.
Would I take him back....that thought has crossed my mind. He was a nice guy & a gentleman...until he vanished. If he didn't want to be with me anymore & told me I would of considered him a friend...I can't say that for the other guys I've been with.
This is the first time I tried online I wanted to try it out & see what happens. What would I change....to express how I feel before its too late....or that you may not get another chance to do so. And communicate more.