Your Opinion Please!

A man messaged me today to get to know me, but after reading his profile, it didn't grab my interest. So I politely messaged back to say, "I'm not sure whether we would be compatible as I feel we have different approaches to life. But you are welcome to message me on CS."

His reply was "You must have heavy baggage".

I'm interested to find out from men whether it is a natural assumption with some men to assume that women must have heavy baggage if a woman is not interested? very happy Women's opinion is welcome too! happy place
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Marina...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Put those heavy bags down dear,and I will carry them for you !!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up bouquet
LOL @ Parti.......I must get Inspector Meggs to help me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I thought it was a gentleman thing to offer help to the Ladies rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Thank you Parti.....I never say no to your help!!!!giggle
Marina ..As sensible an answer as you can get out of me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing is he couldnt handle the rebuf so decided to add some tripe to stir you up...bouquet
Hi marina, just tell him that you have your own personal porter, or say baggage is better than always using plastic bags to go on vacation(holiday). professor
LOL @ Parti.....that is true giggle

LOL @ Paul.....Plastic bags to go on vacation, now that is an excellent idea rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Marina... Glad Parti stepped in to carry your luggage... Thanks Parti! beer (um... less work for me laugh )

A natural assumption? ... I don't think so. But perhaps this gent has encountered folks who do have baggage from prior relationships... at some point in life we all do, I think. Perhaps he figures everyone does, so for him, this is the easy answer. dunno

When someone isn't interested, I tend to figure they're not interested and stop there. I would be interested to know why but won't ask... it might not have anything to do with me or with anything I can or would want to change. thumbs up

If I were him, if it weren't clear, I might ask you to clarify the differences you mention... the baggage comment doesn't make sense to me though ... not something I'd say.

Good luck and good night and good morning, Marina! bouquet
Thank you inthemind very happy .....I wouldn't have minded if he sought clarification as you would have done. But to assume I have baggage and that was the reason I was saying no, made me giggle giggle
LOL @ Parti......I totally agree with you laugh
Marina, it actually sounds like this man was just into packing light, maybe 1 shirt, 1 pair of pants, 1 pair of socks, and reversing the unders. rolling on the floor laughing An overnight bag, It is springtime in your hemisphere! laugh I'm just joking with those comments. I believe that the man was just being spiteful and rude to your reply, and he probably was looking for something quick, not a real relationship.
LOL @ Paul.....an overnight Bag huh??? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing So sorry that I couldn't pack it for him rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing On the serious note, I think you are right giggle
You're welcome. peace On a lighter note, would you really help him pack his baggage? dunno Aren't your arms and back sore from packing and carrying your own? rolling on the floor laughing
That is true Kara......I have seen some people so easily displace their frustrations on others. As inthemind mentioned, it is easy to think "all" people are saying "no" because of baggage. Being Twisted and having the last word motivates some people. giggle

LOL @ Paul.....Well if he carries mine, I will carry his...does that sound like a fair deal???? giggle
Just aslong as you don't open and hold the door for him, too. Unless, he's leaving and not coming back. Don't forget a nice kick to his lower half.
I think I'll go down to the Shop and get a Cadbury's Dairy Milk CHOCOLATE.... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing As soon as I put this Baggage in the Bin...dancing
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LOL @ Paul.....I will keep that in mind rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

LOL @ Parti....don't forget to get me one too....I will be your BEST FRIEND FOR LIFE rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I just read your profile. Did he fill out your "compatability quiz"? Or did he just cut to the chase?
Well Virgo.....they say patience is a virtue wink

LOL @ Paul.....no he didn't do the compatibility test laugh But I can understand why some people are reluctant to do it giggle
give some to the dog and the cat for me ,parti ,
I think of a bigger picture , I know I will still be here next year

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I didn't do your quiz either. Should we be writing like this? Or do I need to take the quiz first?
Skooze me Marina rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Virgo ..Hows The Good Ship Venus going....grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
LOL @ Parti....you can't eat it by yourself frustrated You are such a tease rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Now hand it over, before I set inspector Megs on ya rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing You are right...Hungary had it's first free election in 1990 where the Hungarian Democratic Forum winning the election! very happy


You never know Virgo.....you may find a wonderful woman who may snap you up by next year wink

LOL @ Paul.....everyone is welcome to message me very happy
But, I feel that if I message you, that you might politely reply with a message saying that we are not compatable. Sorry, that's just my natural assumption about you.
Parti, in 1994 we had the winter olympics in norway.
I don't think soviet was present.. lol.

Marina without checking wiki, the uprising P is reffering to must have been in 1961. (50y). I think he's trying to pull your legs in two different directions here. drinking
yes marina , I'm sure I've had enough short term relationships here on CS this year and it sure would be great for one to last longer hug kiss dancing
And think of all that extra Snow you had to play with,because they stayed home !!!laugh laugh applause applause cheers
Do you mean to say you DON'T wanna pull Marina's legs a
part-i... hmmm?
Jana will tell us when she logs on, but let me check wiki-
the most relable source of info at net.. sec..

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Ok, oct/nov 1956, making it 55years ago but the time of year was right.
beer
From wiki:
"In December, 1991, the preamble of the treaties with the dismembered Soviet Union, under Mikhail Gorbachev, and Russia, represented by Boris Yeltsin, apologized officially for the 1956 Soviet actions in Hungary. This apology was repeated by Yeltsin in 1992 during a speech to the Hungarian parliament."
here morgen here's something to think about

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LOL @ Virgo....we'll pray that the next one is the long lasting one for ya hug hug
Virgo..There is a Jet missing in the left side of vent !!!Get a refund.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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I've got this one parti
What is the machine, Virgo? very happy
Is that out of a 1912 Bently >???rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Very Bently...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing doh cheers
And when you drive past dont forget to pick up Marina's Baggage..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing beer
LOL @ Parti......YAY I get my personal Porter rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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yes this season's stockcar , I'm selling one of the spare carbsto help pay for a bigger holley 500 cfm , and I only have to sell this one below to do it .....its a 350 cfm holley

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Good Luck selling it Virgo! very happy
Virgo...What that below picture I think CS is charging you for selling Stock Car Parts on Site..wow cheers
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