Your Opinion Please!
A man messaged me today to get to know me, but after reading his profile, it didn't grab my interest. So I politely messaged back to say, "I'm not sure whether we would be compatible as I feel we have different approaches to life. But you are welcome to message me on CS."His reply was "You must have heavy baggage".
I'm interested to find out from men whether it is a natural assumption with some men to assume that women must have heavy baggage if a woman is not interested? Women's opinion is welcome too!
Comments (61)
LOL @ Paul.....Plastic bags to go on vacation, now that is an excellent idea
A natural assumption? ... I don't think so. But perhaps this gent has encountered folks who do have baggage from prior relationships... at some point in life we all do, I think. Perhaps he figures everyone does, so for him, this is the easy answer.
When someone isn't interested, I tend to figure they're not interested and stop there. I would be interested to know why but won't ask... it might not have anything to do with me or with anything I can or would want to change.
If I were him, if it weren't clear, I might ask you to clarify the differences you mention... the baggage comment doesn't make sense to me though ... not something I'd say.
Good luck and good night and good morning, Marina!
LOL @ Paul.....Well if he carries mine, I will carry his...does that sound like a fair deal????
LOL @ Parti....don't forget to get me one too....I will be your BEST FRIEND FOR LIFE
LOL @ Paul.....no he didn't do the compatibility test But I can understand why some people are reluctant to do it
Virgo ..Hows The Good Ship Venus going....
You never know Virgo.....you may find a wonderful woman who may snap you up by next year
LOL @ Paul.....everyone is welcome to message me
I don't think soviet was present.. lol.
Marina without checking wiki, the uprising P is reffering to must have been in 1961. (50y). I think he's trying to pull your legs in two different directions here.
part-i... hmmm?
Jana will tell us when she logs on, but let me check wiki-
the most relable source of info at net.. sec..
From wiki:
"In December, 1991, the preamble of the treaties with the dismembered Soviet Union, under Mikhail Gorbachev, and Russia, represented by Boris Yeltsin, apologized officially for the 1956 Soviet actions in Hungary. This apology was repeated by Yeltsin in 1992 during a speech to the Hungarian parliament."
I've got this one parti
Very Bently...
yes this season's stockcar , I'm selling one of the spare carbsto help pay for a bigger holley 500 cfm , and I only have to sell this one below to do it .....its a 350 cfm holley