Is it meant to be?
Hi Guys, I've been wondering recently about one subject.I believe that God created a man and a woman for a reason - to help, love and support each other through life's hardships.
Still there are many single people on Connecting Singles and millions outside the Net.
Unfortunately,there are not many people who'd find their life time partner and will live happily ever after like in the movies. Sometimes we are quite sure that we've found our so called big love, but then something happens and suddenly we loose it.
I've learnt that being in a relationship means to put all your will and efforts to keep the love alive. You need to be active.
That's my explanation why there are just few people who actually stay together for the rest of their lives.
There is other group of people who don't even bother to look for love because they are happy being alone.
My question in short is do you think that it's meant to be each of us to find love or there are people whose destiny is to stay alone?
Comments (6)
I believe life is what you make of it.
It's mostly up to you and randomness,
whether you are successful at whatever you want to do.
There is some evolution and natural selection to this too... traits of those who are successful at "coupling" continue while others don't. This means that aggressive behavior... manipulation... promiscuity... and other traits we might not consider to be good, will continue (to the extent that any of this is genetic).
Religion tends to encourage and support marriage... perhaps you see this as "meant to be" or perhaps this is an example of something being contrived by people (depends on one's outlook on religion).
I'll stick with my first statement... I'm trying to be the right person for the person who is right for me.
Patience, acceptance, support and understanding... if you can give those freely, you're relationship should last.
(and we each need to find our own happiness... which may or may not mean being with someone else)
In Todaysworld everybody looks for its future earningt therefor; Most Of the People prefer to study or work to be at better Life conditions at their life.Within all these there are limited time for people to spend for their Soulmate or Mr.Right or Perfect Love.But I wish everybody lives the feeling of Love.So I advise You to love the life and living.This is most important for the peoiple who did not find the true love okay ?
More I advise You to read the books of Rhonda Bryne
1-) The Secret
2-) The Secret The Power.
I strongly advise You to buy these books and read them immediately.