My Holiday Spirit

Is filled with what-ifs. I hate thinking that I cannot be happy with what I have but I just feel that my life should be in a different place than it is. There is no harder and more lonely a time than the holidays.

I hope that everyone is not as regretful as I am.

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and Best of Luck with Love.
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Well said Sur!thumbs up cheers

LookinFurLuv - life should be lived in the present, no matter how unwholesome it is. You can hope for better, though!wave wine hug
what if you were living in a war zone or your kids were sick,its funny that most complaints about life come from people with full bellies,good health and bright futures,must be the syndrome of too much choice
teddybear I KNOW WHAT U ARE GOING THREW...ME TOO...NOT THE BEST CHRISTMAS THIS YEAR...BUT I AM GRATEFUL TO STILL HAVE A JOB AND SHELTER FOR MY KIDS...IM GOING TO TRY TO VISUALIZE A GREAT DAY TODAY! AND SOMETIMES MIRACLES REALLY DO HAPPEN...SENDING MUCH LOVE AND INSPIRATION TO YOU LOOKIN!!heart wings bouquet teddybear gift
IAMARTISTCAROL--thanks so much for your understanding. I am grateful for the things that are in my control, just wish I had the control I so justly need and diserve for the part of me that loves.

Muahteddybear to everyone
Dear Looking and Carol , How can you be lonely when all of your friends are here . Don't feel sad, it's the season to be jolly . . . santa waving gingerbread
Sure it's a state of mind & for some people it works, they don't feel the loneliness. Which is wonderful if those folks have beaten it. For me it's like a monkey on my back
that I can't shake off. It seems to get heavier when I see others hugging, kissing, holding hands. blues
No need to worry I've had those moments & still do. It will go away. At moments I do cry. But I'm realizing even tho I'm not where I want to be I'm grateful of where I am & what I'm doing & I'm in a better place compared to 10yrs ago. It will get better.

We must appreciate what we have & not focus on what we don't have....some days easier than others. Yes the holidays do trigger some enwanted feelings. Regrets hold us back. While we're busy worrying about the what ifs....life is passing us by.

Merry christmas! hug heart wings
here in Ireland they say, into each life, a little rain must fall, but there are rainbows too, along the road, keep your face to the sun, its harder to see the shadows, merry christmas, lookinforlove.santa waving
Just keep your chin up and things will be better. They always are! Lots of prayer for you, too!
"Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and Best of Luck with Love." to you too! Don't worry it will get better.

To a better New Year for You and I!hug bouquet peace
A song to help us all... comfort wink

christmas cool
your search is to narrow miss...open your eyes as well as your heart...
im in the same boat, and Im sure there are many more of us..obviously this website is not working probably as it should be,lol, as then there would be no more lonely and upset people at xmas, questioning our destinies .
jon x
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