Love Advice for Guys
Love is a deep emotional feeling that everyone feels at some point in their lives. Occasionally, this feeling can leave you confused and frustrated. Men across the world are confused when it comes to women. The truth is that men and women are different, especially when dealing with matters of the heart. Here is some love advice just for men who need it.ComplimentsWomen like compliments. Sometimes, certain women will feel like you don't love them unless you compliment them occasionally. Complimenting a woman every day can eventually lead her to question your sincerity. So only give compliments a few times per week at the most, but make sure you do it. Be specific with your words--say, "That dress brings out the pretty green in your eyes," instead of saying, "That dress looks hot." "Beautiful" and "pretty" go further than the word "hot" ever will.
RomanceEven the strongest woman enjoys romance. Small things go far with most women--random kisses, chivalry and flirting. Small things let her know how much you care and that you are paying attention to her. Women crave attention from their men. Just don't smother her in it. Don't underestimate the power of a short, sweet email or opening doors for her.
ApologizingIf you properly apologize to a woman, it can take you a long way. Women are generally forgiving human beings--it is all in the way you do it. Never tell a woman "I'm sorry you feel that way." This makes her angrier by feeling that you just told her she is in the wrong. Instead, just say "I'm sorry." You can think the rest in your head. Also, don't make up excuses. "I'm sorry; I'm under stress" will make her feel like you think what you did was okay because you are under stress. Instead, say, "I'm under stress and wasn't thinking right. It was my fault. I'm sorry." Funny thing is that women are quicker to forgive you if you say it was your fault, not theirs.
Getting the DigitsYou talk to a girl and realize you like her. You may be afraid that if you don't get her number you will never hear from her again. It can be easy to get those digits if you are slick or if you are lucky that she is really into you. When you are leaving, start to walk away and then quickly turn around and say something like, "Hey, do you have a phone number or email so we could chat again sometime?" Be friendly and confident. If you look nervous or scared, it will make her wonder about your motives. Ending the conversation, walking away, and then coming back to ask her for her number allows her time to realize if she liked you or not.
Let Her TalkLet her talk about herself. Listen, and share your opinions. Keep them short and sweet. Women can be turned off by a guy who gives his opinion and then dives deep into his own thoughts, taking over her spotlight. You will have your time to talk later. Ask her about herself. One immediate way a woman can tell if a guy is into her is if he asks her questions about herself. Otherwise, why would you care to know? This will make her feel more comfortable around you. If she fails to ask you anything about yourself, she is either too nervous or just not that into you
Comments (10)
So with all that advice,, are you happily within a relationship
Just being funny.
Q) How many women really want a man that under the right circumstances won't stick up for his point of view? I would prefer a woman that has her own mind and can stand her ground if she is right - not someone who always apologises and agrees with me all the time.
The problem with following a script or a set off rules may be that you are not being yourself. So is it better to be yourself and take your chances?
I certainly think there is a better list of "don't do's"
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I would only take it as a guideline,,
Simply be yourself
i disagree with you diamond, i dont like a man to tell me its not my fault when it is