Friends with benefits.
I was talking to a friend earlier who has just been on a 2nd successful date. I naturally asked her if she had a 3rd one planned and was she looking forward to it.She said yes, but then came back to me later and said NO, not really. She has got used to living on her own without a partner. In charge of her own life, finances and decisions. While she is happy to date, she does not relish getting too close to someone that they start talking about moving in together.
The more I thought about this I realised this could be quite a common problem.
Any comments please.
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What im looking for is a girl with the same romantical ideas as me. Then we're set! Goooo!
The whole 9 yeards pls.
This is problem for most women who have long lived alone and are independent financial!
I have the same problem, nevertheless I still believe that I will finaly met my soul mate.
But there are one second breed of women, who are too selfish and can live with none except with themselves. Who knows which of both breed is your friend?
What I was thinking - are women becoming more independant while men hold to traditional values.
With the right guy it shouldn't be a problem when its mutual between us both. I don't want to lose my freedom & indepence, but I don't want to be suffocated or joined at the hip. You want to look forward being together & giving each other their appropriate space.
I did kinda have a fwb situation for awhile. It was good & gave me something I was missing. He gave me the affection & stuff I didn't get from any other guy. I rather have that then go random guys & say, "I'm frisky let's get it on". I would never do it with any other guy.
I do believe everyone should do what they feel is right, no two situations, no matter how similar they appear, are exactly the same.
All I know is, that if I were dating someone and later find out that they have a FWB and are sleeping with them on a regular basis, it doesn't make me feel like I'm starting with someone from scratch, the very beginning, there is already someone in the closet.
online-fwb, in the que to the right!
How a longdistance ofwb work i wonder.
ldofwb