Well once again,
it seems that I have upset many men and women on this site for having a username such as mine and for the profile pictures that I have posted, and also for the harmless flirting I have done in the blog section, that is has brought me to tears, and maybe I should just remove myself altogether from C.S. I'm sorry for not wanting to date anyone on here as yet, but all I wanted to do was to be a part of the C.S family in the blog section, and to get to know each and everyone of you, and to proudly say you are my friends.You have all been so nice to me when I first joined back in 2011, and welcomed me in your circle of friends that I hold dear to my heart.
But today I have received many emails about my actions on here as well as having a username such as mine.
I, for one have had a very isolated life when I was married for 22yrs. I was never allowed to have male or female friends because of the way I look, and I thought that I could put that all behind me. I'm not here to name names, which is wrong in my eyes, but I was raised not to be rude or unkind to my fellow human beings, but I just don't know if I have the strength to handle what these men and women have said to me.
I just wanted to make some friends, and write blogs, but this has become so upsetting to me, that I don't know what to do.
I even went so far as to make a video for someone here in the blogs who thought that I was a scammer, but he said it crashed his computer, and I'm sorry for that as well.
I don't want to leave the blog section, cause then I will be leaving the niceness people I've come to know. This is just breaking my heart.
I always try and answer all the emails that I receive , but most of my time is taken up by the job that I have, and I'm sorry for that as well.
And for my flirting on here with a few members in the blogs, I'm sorry if it was some sort of indication that I wanted to date you. I don't know if any of the women on here is getting this backlash, but I really can't handle it.
So I would like to say, please forgive me for my actions, pics, and username and for not wanting to date anyone as yet.
If anyone of you would like me to leave the blog section, or C.S altogether, I will do so, no questions asked.
Sugarbum
Comments (40)
Did you read my blog, People are dumb? Well, some people are dumb.
Best wishes and saucey emails!
DW
the best I can say is ignore any bad remarks that you get ,
always keep in mind all the good chatter you've had
on here so far
As to the flirting i never had a problem, and i find you sweet as a person and defnetly want you to stick around.
Not me - I like strong women - be yourself and let others live with it.
z
Had to take that one yea...
A spelloe can make wonders, right Paul?
Remember "The people who fight against you probably admire you the most."
You that can't spell;;;;;;;
Going to sleep now,
Goodnight folks
Ohh... and for the flirting, it's just the spice of this site.
Was just cos it looked funny, nevermind sleep well grandpa
There is a clue in what I said he was holding
If someone is rude in a blog, it's up to the blog owner (or the CS folks) to decide what to do. When someone is rude in a private message, you can simply block them.
You draw attention and not everyone is polite and friendly... that's the nature of people.
It would seem that you would need to choose between drawing less attention or filtering out the negative attention. The tools are there, if you wish to use them.
Dang if I don't get a prize
Sure you get a prize::violin:
Anybody got an alcometer here btw?
Yea, guess its beyond bedtime for a few of us.
I do not know much what is the talk about
I remember I commented a blog about our usernames... but as ususal I commented and left CS because of work
As for me;
I like your username and I can see NOTHING wrong with that, I like woman to behave like woman, so what?
As for your profile photo - I see nothing wrong with indeed. Maybe a bit flirting, but this is not a political or religion site where we should all wear suits and formal clothes, but dating site!
Sugarbum.... go girl go!!!!!
Don't ever think you have to make public excuses for your actions, you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself.
Besides... this is not the real world and some people simply enjoy getting under others skin for no reason whatsoever.
To be out here, requires a bit of thick skin and some reality sense... don't let stupid private messages get to you and simply stay who you are. As you can see, there are a lot of bloggers who do appreciate you.
Just ignore them and cat video to brighten your day..
I, for one will not judge you - it's a free world where you & I live so you do what you like - enjoy, be happy & have a lovely weekend.
some people here just don't/can't/don't want to get the concept: "live n let live... mind EXCLUSIVELY your own business"
so, take my advice, just give em the side... let em all say whatever they feel like and just forget about it the very next second. As far as I am concerned, u was/is/will be most welcome on the blogs. I am sure that that is valid for many other bloggers as well.
u have a great day!
People who do judge you for not laying at their feet on command do have a serious issue with themselves.
your getting cold feet
hang in there and be upbeat
and make the whole world tweet