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with my cousins recent passing away it was a real eye opener, cause she was only 26 years old and i thought we would grow old together and talk about our childhood days! Her funeral was Wednesday and I couldnt attend but had to hear get my news via bbm/facebook! Her death has brought our family closer together cause i have made/connected with my other cousins who i haven't seen in years!Now we have made friends on Facebook and in contact on Black berry! Our funerals are only sad in church and the grave but afterwards they laugh and last i heard they had karaoke @ my uncles house! I missed out big time on reconnecting with my family mourning and laughing together! Sadly it took someone to die to bring u all together againmoping
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a messenger in deedangel innocent
tx dany boy! what happened to the bad a@@ boylaugh wave
I am sorry to hear of your loss. It is great that you can see the positive even in such sad circumstances. sad flower
thank you boris, i believe that laughter can cure many things, thats because i have such a weird sense of humourlaugh wave
ok danny thought it was the samedunno
I know that lost!
Had a sweet friend ,looked forward for her wedding to attend but even her funeral I Dont wish to go ,strange she died in a bike accident ,attending a wedding ,her fiance took her home for work next day ..she died on the spot! Every month with her ,i used to give her a rose and see her smile and blush. I lost my only sweet friend and it's darker days for me. Sorry to share my pain but I comfort you for a dearest lost. sad flower
Hi Chococherrie, it seems many people follow that situation similarly. Most relatives are apt to attend Weddings and Funerals than Family Re-unions, but more so funerals, to say our final goodbyes. It is a very sad time, but as you say it also brings relatives together.

This is why I always say, the time to appreciate a friend/relative and to show them or let them know is while they are alive.. because we never know what one day to the next brings. Thus, my words after every blog I write.. Smile, have fun and enjoy each day.. and spread good cheer to all, especially to your relatives and close friends.

My condolences to you and your relatives, and moving forward, I wish you good health, healing and happiness.. always. rose
thats sad, sad flower and its more than ok to share ur pain
thank you rob, i have no regrets without being able to say goodbye or that i love her, we seldom use that word in our family cause we dont need to , we know it and feel itapplause
I think death is a dance to a better place and to fear it is not good but to embrace a new doorway to peace is good.hug we just miss people and want them in this realm....
true calli, just was a great shock! but when is death not onesigh
Well said, Calliwine
Just shows how stupid we are. I dislike us (human race) more now then a few years ago. Kinda like dubled viewed on it: and the two goes only further apart each day: the symphaty and the antipahti i have for us human beings. Just my 2 cents. Choco-flirter: since i diden't say it b4: my condolenses.
thank you morgwave i still love humans tho, were a cute racewink
I still too, but sometimes i get so disappointed over us.
Love you choco.

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that what makes us interesting morg, were human and arent perfect cause that would just be dullwave
I know what you mean. But how about this version:
first we show we can be close to perfect then we mess it all up delebratly for fun? Better even?

Just my last thought of the day.
0500 here. C u later.

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I am sorry for your loss chococherrie
ok morg
tx lonelywave
Hey choco.lips Must be hard to be so far away from everyone right now but nice to know the family is rallying for each other.
hi, hammy! yes it is,all things happens for a reasonwave
Choco ~ wave It is said the there are lessons to learn in life - but death provides the biggest lesson of them all. angel all the "What if's" + "Why didn't I's" come pouring out of every individual.
innocent Normal behavior...It reconnects our humane side!

Listen to the words of this song very carefully....
The Living Years - Mike and the Mechanics

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tx el! yes i know thats song very well!my uncle uncle het dit baie gespeelwave
In our daily lives we do lose contact with our loved ones, the most important thing to remember is that its not deliberate, its just an indication of how busy our lives have become.

But at the end of the day, we still love and cherish each other even though we may not be in contact with each other all the time.
But its always awesome to reconnect, the stories get told and many laughs and good times are had by one and all..

I hope you are well Choco, i always wish nothing but the best for you.

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thank you wabbyhug
Sadness, but also togetherness, that's why I love my family so dearly. My sincere condolences again Choco.

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thank you shay, im ok really it just made me think a lot
'Even in death, there is hapiness'professor
We would only realise we missed out valuable things when someone was gone. The death of your cousin is just a sample. Nevertheless, he is in peace seeing your family re-connected.
Choco be happy if that happen! when your family are toghether even if this happen on sad moments of losing some one very closed.

My best wishes and prays!.. that the family stay united and never fight. heart1 hug wave
chococherrie I am sorry to hear abut your loss.
I like reading your blogs some day we will be with
the people we lost and til we are all together again
we will never forget them .every day we will think abut
them I think abut my husband every day .snowed in
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