Smitten bug
if the possibility that there was a profile that you
here?but something told you to hold back for fear of what will be the result here !!
now i should practice what i preach ?..NOW twice i have looked at this profile ....in the last couple of days ...and no this aint a who done it.WELL recently i have been paying attention to this person 
now i dont think i have emailed this person....I WANT to..but ..but...but...but....but if i do ...will that person email another and say HAY!!..you no that MARKET character..he just emailed me... 
honest this is my biggest fear
now i no it,s just a SITE and not to take it to heart ......but do you folks feel the same when there is someone here that you may be attractive to?do you or dont you ...maybe i should practice what i preach..YES NO MAYBE......what to do?also i like the personality of this person seems very genuine and real.....am i ready?
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about time to ! ...how long has it been now ?
Me i agree with Nessa, you can say Hi and talk first
Just say "hi"
And please let us know how it goes ... Maybe mention her name .. So we can tell her to mail her buddies and tell them Market contacted her or maybe she could open a blog or thread and tell all CS members that you have the hots for her (now that would be paranoia)
You can use the "Flowers" option with a ready text, people find it good for a start and less harmful if there isn't an answer. Good luck!
ariel..yes i am a big boy ....and easy to bump into things i cant see well
Trying to imagine Market all taken by wild emotions like a big crazy smitten bug
Dont be Shy now Mark!!
Anyways just a short story, you think you have issues lol , there was a member on the forums who opened up a thread confessing she was madly inlove with another member whom she never spoke to btw .. . But everybody pleaded with her to mail him or send him a flower, I also told just say "hi" start there don't scare the guy away by telling him you love him, just try to be friends and see where it goes .. Although I was dying to know who it was lol ... she refused to take our advise but still went on about how much she "loved" him . About 6 pgs later she got one of the ladies to contact him and tell him to mail her ... And guess what ! The guy was not interested in here in that way .. And he came onto the thread and revealed himself and said he can only be a friend ...
Anyways what I am trying to say is don't be so conscious, I am sure that (friendly) mail or flower would between you and her ... But word of advice you better send it to about 10 other women too