jealousy , proof of love or insecurety??

never felt jealous in my life of the women i had on my side.
some of them accused me , that since i am not jealous i didnt love them.
strange thou , cause i always believed , jealousy is a result of our fears and insecurities.
what do you think???help conversing uh oh wave
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Hi Dimi, Jealousy is a possessive feeling generate by insecurities... I have been in a relationship with a woman who was so jealous that not only my male friends but female friends were quick out from my scene... She wants exclusivity of the all of me... The number of fights I had was simply to much to handle. It is a feeling that I never experience personally, I don't know what it does feel but I know what it cost to live with a jealous type of person...a living hell! Not just because of this experience I won't go to any conventional relationship but since childhood I love to be alone and do my own things freely. I will post a blog tomorrow about a relate topic of yours...handshake cheers handshake
BOBAN ,
LOL u forgot to send her with some broken bones and a serious concussion , to the closer hospital . it is natural too.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing sigh wave
space-phil
my friend , the accusers were the most jealous and that made them wondering , the reasons i dont feel jealous like them. believe me phil i know what u r talking about : EXCLUSIVITY .sigh sigh blues mumbling cheers
lack of privacy is already a great problem in a relation, imagine jealous and exclusivity also , its a totally hell . dont want to imagine the horror and the loosing of ur personality ,on a relation like that.frustrated frustrated frustrated broken heart blah sad
virgo
trust is for the healthy ones. most of the jealous r really sick . mentally i meanrolling on the floor laughing conversing wave
most of them use it as a excuse to break-up ...if you are going to keep them you both need alone time together with no outside influence to make a strong bond ....but in life its a big lesson , with plenty of mistakes made along the way , till you find someone you can live with teddybear
Hi Blue,

As I said in another blog....

If you cannot trust - you cannot love - you have nothing.

Jealousy is a sickness. You either suffer from it or you don't. Unfortunately the one who do - do not realise it.

been there, done that, never again.

z wave
virgo
thats true my friend , but its not of that topic to say , cause i believe the compromises r the main reason we loose each other on a relationship. i will post it another daythumbs up thumbs up thumbs up wave conversing
Z "Unfortunately the one who do - do not realise it." How so true you are handshake cheers

Virgo I believe that in order to trust the other one you have to trust yourself...handshake cheers
z

i was accused that being not a jealous guy , i didnt love them. what do u think of that. what jealousy , has to do with love???confused conversing help
Hi - seeing as it is a bar night (guys only) and a few sailors lets have a song..



z
whats your star sign , it may show a more compatible partener for you , than the wrong ones who keep taking you for a ride ..

like , I'm a virgo , so my perfect partner would be ,Taurus & Capricorn

a like minded soul would be another virgo

but if I wanted astrological hell , then I go with Pisces

wave
hey!!!!!!!!!!!
where r the ladies ??????
dove sono le donne??
où sont les dames??
Wo sind die Damen???
dónde están las mujeres??dunno dunno dunno dunno conversing wink wave
Virgo I never believe on star sign but I must say two of my relationship were with women of the same star sign and nothing common between them at all.
yes you have to go with them to find out ...

so you perfect partner is , Taurus & virgo


you would not want to be with , Aries & libra

and in hell with Cancer

but you would go with another Capricorn ...

but its only a guide ..as there are 30 plus days in a month with many varibles , on a cusp , pure and others

see like there are certain dates in virgo that I wont have anything to do with them ....but I'm fussy and only the right mind will do ...

wave
virgo
it doesnt work for me
never found two girls from the same sign similr to ech other.
i tried to be with another capricorn. didnt work either. she wasnt not a bit close to a capricorn.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort cheers
yes there will be differences , but have you try-ed all capricorn women or only 2 of them ?
virgo
there r 11 more signs , my friend , i wouldn't like them being complaining rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing head banger beer
yes , but you have sampled them all havent you ! wave
Virgo while it said that it is not really compatible my best and only great match and the best and fabulous blissful relationship until her death by car accident was with an Aries woman...
yes I like aries women too , even if some of the are off with the fairies but they are loverly women ..cheering
I've drawn a line , and I dont want to live with a libra or aquarius , no matter how good looking they are ,and so is those women born in the Fire-Horse year ...never again professor professor
frank
in real life??i dont think women can fool a real , man who knows how to read their body and its needsrolling on the floor laughing tongue professor head banger
Blue you don't need to read their body...just feel they body...like when you pay guitar hummmmmapplause applause applause applause cheering cheering
to play the guitar u either read the part or u use ur ear to hear the notes . u can use womans body thou like a musical instrument and make it play the nicest musics lolprofessor rolling on the floor laughing beer
frank
the most u make for them
the most u feel like a manwink uh oh thumbs up
Blue, I couldn't agree more !. . .applause applause applause
Totally agree Blue and Frank applause applause applause applause
Dear Exotic, Please join in . we are exploring the merrits of giving you women the ultimate experience . I think you will agree that it is best for both of us . . . yay
Hi exotic wave wave wave
dimi
r u the jealous type??do u want to be with a jealous man, or u think jealous is a proof of someones insecure??help conversing wine comfort
Im human i think to be one you should feel all emotions at some level.wave
waf
welcome to our chat
i cant disagree , but do u think jealusy os a sign of love or an insecures one???confused uh oh wave
Thank you,Morning all,wave and agreed,ultimate experience for all to be had,Frank. angel

Space,please call me Dimi,wine

Yes,Blue/Dimi,fear,insecurities, abandonment issue's,the list goes on....handshake hug bouquet
Waf one emotion I can not feel is Jealousy maybe because like every human being we all have some emotions stronger than others and we don't necessarily possess all the same range of emotion (and thinking) like the same reaction with stress, more I am in a stressful situation more I am becoming detached and of a cold calmness however one situation stress me like hell and every body love this type of emotions (well every one is differently wired)
BTW HI waf wave
dimi
never felt insecure in a relation
on my business plans , or my guitar playing , yes i did , but never for a woman , weird, heh??? rolling on the floor laughing wink kiss
@ Exotic...your desires are my orders dear Dimi and what women want GOD can rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing kiss hug
Oooops I might have all the religious on my back rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Exotic, You are here with Blue, Waf, Space and myself excusively . Together we have aproxamately 200years of experience in pleasing a woman . With thoes kind of statistics you just might make all the other womwn here jealous ! . . . .wow . .laugh laugh
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