What Is So Appealing About The Bad Boys?

This is the second blog I've posted on here. I'm not much for blogging but I found the responses from my last blog helpful, so here goes nothing? I guess this question is more for the ladies but what is so appealing about the bad boy? If any of you remember me from my last post, I was having some issues with a best friend of mine who I decided to start dating. Well things just didn't work out for a number of reasons. One of those reason is her ex's. Now she says that there's nothing going on, that she has no feelings for him. Yet she'll hang around him and will not hangout with me. Now her ex, he's a real piece of work. He's been physically and verbally abusive to her. Even when me and her were just friends and I was supportive of their relationship, he didn't want us being friends. I even called her a few weekends ago and she out with him and some couple they used to hangout with and he answered the phone saying, "Jessyca doesn't want you to call her anymore." I talked to her about this and she swears she had nothing to do with it and that she talked to him about it. She dated this guy for two years and she finally broke up with him when he body checked her into a wall. Yet, for some reason she thinks that there's some friendship there that she needs to save. I don't quite understand. I've always been by her side through the bad times with this guy and yet I get cast aside. We aren't really talking too much now. Our friendship is just kind of falling apart. So once again I will ask, what is so appealing about the bad boy?
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Seems to me that some women just love to be mis treated some actualy think its quite terapudic if you can emagine that, but to me women like that have alot of issues to sort out within themselvs, to me it would seem in your better interest to just move on to better people. Body slaming anyone is very negative and not normal behavior and for any body to enjoy that are kinda out their in left field with eyes shut anyways.
all i can say is she isn't worth the trouble of keeping on trying to work out anything with. thats my thinking anyways.
Thanks Vinny. You know, I've told her several times that I thought it would be in her best interest if she got some help. She's very bi-polar at times. She's been through a lot and I think that if she actually got some help she might ok. You are probably right though. It's probably best that I move on. It's very hard to when you love someone and they are one of your best friends. Thanks for your thoughts though Vinny. I appreciate them.
Thanks Irish girl. That was very insightful. This always perplexed me.
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