Younger Men Older Woman

Recently I met up with a younger guy I met on line. We hit it off right away and decided to keep in touch. The age difference is over 15 years and it was understood to be friends only.

We got a little intimate in our first meetup but all was good. We were going to meet up again and in the meantime I researched his cell number on line. It came up a different carrier than he told me. I questioned him about it since I didnt have unlimited text messaging with the phone carrier I thought he subscribed to and it would be too costly to keep texting with him.

Well apparently he took it as accusing him of a lie and freaked out in the text messages he sent me. When I apologized for sounding so accusatory he said it turned him off and didnt know if he still was interested in me.

Can one of the younger guys on here tell me if this sounds like something someone should be bothered about or if this is so wrong that it is a deal breaker. I feel that he either found someone else or doesnt have the time for me right now, or may even have a girlfriend or wife.

If one of the younger guys can tell me what the attraction is to younger men about older woman and a little about how younger men go about trying to get older woman and the tactics one will use would appreciate your response.
Post Comment

Comments (14)

It does sound like he was hiding something. Don't fret the loss because the sudden exit might be a good thing.

I can't say why younger guys are attracted to older women because I'm way past young, but why not?
I'm no spring chicken either, but you have every right to question anyone about anything, especially someone you are trying to get to know. Drama is always a bad thing....good luck!grin cool
go out wth one of his friendsand get even banana
This would be the type of relationship, and I use the word 'relationship' loosely here, that you would hide from your friends. My point being, I think it is safe to assume she has not been introduced to his friends, or family for that matter.
But Jersey Girl, don't be sad. What you experienced is no different than love. Love is only a longer urge.
NJGirl. Same here, single since 06. Date here & there does get discoutaging doesn't it. Lol. Not all younger guys are like that for that reason. I like older weman and all my freinds know it. I just get along better with the older group. But yeah, sounds like he wasn't good for ya but cheer up! We are out there!bouquetwine hug
*commitment from him , i mean
If a man is younger than 10 years by you its obvious he is after your money why will he come to you when he has so many younger ladies to choose from. I had already written a blog on this and many men were ruffeled by it because I knew they were in that situation at some point of time you are a beautiful woman find someone of your age and be happy
It's nothing about younger or older it's all about the person , and I think this guy didn't have any intention from the beginning on to have a longer relationship with you.
When they go for reasons to brake up it's a big BS, when it's nothing there on feelings than it's easy to find reasons.
Once one told me that our dogs wouldn't get along with each other rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ..just to brake up with me.
When they start to say something just run it's nothing worth.heart beating
sounds like a player to me
Ariel

I agree with your comments. I wish it was that easy to find someone my own age. I have been in school for 2 1/2 years and it wasnt until this summer I was able to go out and since then what I have seen in my age group is not a whole lot of men looking for committed relationships.

Just a little tired of waiting so long. Havent had a real relationship since 2006 and that was on its way out several years before that so if we count the years it would be 2003.

Thanks again for your advice
NJ. Funy, no one here, where I live, seems to be looking for anything searious. That's why I'm kinda hopeing to meet someone older. Lol. I've allways been told I was bourn a generation late. Haha
For those that may think all us younger guys are like that, we're not.peace
Right, i am 27 and in my opinion this guy just found a pathetic excuse to get away from you. For some guys, older woman is just like wine, it gets tastier by time if you know what i mean. :)
Right, i am 27 and in my opinion this guy just found a pathetic excuse to get away from you. For some guys, older woman is just like wine, it gets tastier by time if you know what i mean. :)
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.

About this Blog

by NJGirl
created Sep 2012
2,373 Views
Last Viewed: Apr 18
Last Commented: Sep 2012
NJGirl has 9 other Blogs

Like this Blog?

Do you like this Blog? Why not let the Author know. Click the button to like the Blog. And your like will be added. Likes are anonymous.

Feeling Creative?