Boyfriend/fiance Baling

I would wash my hands of him, personally. Total lack of respect to leave you hanging that way.... JMO

Lgs, We have been together just over 2 years and that is why I am just ugh! I totally see your point. Thank you!!!

show up for ? on the 28th.here it's the 30th.to spend the weekend?you living together right now or...?

yahoo message are you internet engaged,you must have seen him in those 2 yrs?

mother.. Together for 2 years how? Do you live in the same town or state or is it a cyber relationship?

Cabingirl, He was coming to propose to me on the 28th. Yes, we met on this site and dated on and off again for other reasons. Never met in person just through cam. I am better than that, I really thought my heart was with him and still is just hurts like crazy!!

Lgs, We live in the same state.

mother....I hope you didn't give him money for the trip??

Lgs, no Hun. I didn't. This was going to be my surprise visit. He had enough money and stuff like that.

say ya didn't...

cabingirl, He wanted to hear my answer when he got down here. I have online said yes though. Just not in person.

Whew....good. Such an important trip for you both and he blows it off New year.......new "The One" I'd say Michigan is a big state with LOTS of possibilities

You got engaged to a guy you had never meet?

hmmmmmm maybe just try be more careful who you get involved with next time

Glat, I know I really need to be more careful with the emotions on my shoulder. Thanks Hugs!

well..not meeting him could be a blessing in disguise.but i would not wish harm came to him.be strong for yourself and children-an unreliable father will destroy them no matter how you look at it;emotionally or mentally.

Oh my god whoever that is...he was coming to propose to me but I never met him...just dated him on on yahoo...think of your kids...life's not a television or computer...you're going to have to learn to laugh...really laugh...seriously that's really bad...on both your parts...kids involved...and getting engaged online...that's just mad...sorry but c'mon

cabingirl, My kids know him from cam as well, and are very disappointed as well. but, yes a blessing I hope.

sorry but whether he has his own kids or not,your kids father is going to want an explanation too.kids will tell their own dad what's up.and you should all be on the same page on this one.
even if you are moving on from this experience.

do me a huge favor and take some self-defense classes.i am totally serious.your children need you to do a background check before you introduction them especially on a computor.predators groom the mother first,then her kids.your kids just learned to not trust so easily- i hope you will learn it now.

I'd say blank him, think how you can upset him, if you're a mother of 3 one is probably a boy...think if he asked me are we engaged...what would you say to the boy...and he's you're boy...not some stranger off the internet...upset him back...tell him you moved to dunno alaska top of a volcano...if he played you play him back...I'm sorry really I'm am...try put it behind you...do it before the new year...promise me...don't be down at that level

Amus, Men might be players and I am a very bad player back. I am just way to kind and sweet for that to be honest. Although, somewhere warm does sound good right now!!!

i know your heart wanted to believe it and raising kids can be very lonely even when you're married.if they've gone to bed and he's at work..you are not with any adult company.i feel this is the stage where you need to get out of the rut.play women's volleyball in eve. with other mothers.or bowl-places like that have a play area.you'll meet friends and take the edge of that isolation.get a sitter,swap nights with another mom,but don't let your social needs slide. good luck.

I know I wouldn't had been as trusting as you.

Just speaks volumes of the man he is/was.

cabingirl, thanks for the tips, I really don't get out much. Darn it maybe I should.

CC- I know most people don't have the trust I do. Actions do speck and he messed up. I don't even hate him for it just disappointed.

two years of hurt...gotta hurt...nobody's laughing at you...I promise...we're laughing with you...drop the zero get a hero...ok

Amus! Honey, that was good!!! I sure needed that laugh HUGS!!!

Be good be faithful be honest...then you can do anything you want...men or women...happy new year

Okay so youve had recent contact any explanation i mean what does he say??

don't say dead air to waf..he'll bring up his 1st point again.

cabingirl. LOL!!! I think that was to funny. I thought maybe it ment something else in Aussie???

Mtnc thats my kind of wit. "THUD"

Waf, Well, Sorry!

waf parti's blog has gone poof..with his photo too

Yes the comments have been deleted off K.Rs blog. Hello Pinay i think your right i wouldnt wait that long myself but i can see how it can happen.

Pinay, Very good point! Love will find me and I thought this one did too. So, Totally UGH confused!!!

Waf, I thought I truelly did care and I was willing to wait for him. When I don't drive what can I do walk?? LMAO!!!